12:52 am - 04/19/2012
Chloe Sevigny thinks it's "reee-donkulous" that she can't say "tranny"
Chloe Sevigny In Trouble For “Tranny” Talk

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Chloe Sevigny: I got reamed out by The Advocate the other day for saying “tranny.” I guess I referred to [my character] as a “tranny” a couple of times and apparently, that’s a no-no in the community. I felt really bad! Nobody had ever told me. Did you know that?
Huffington Post: I just know that now because I think Blake Lively also said that recently …
Chloe Sevigny: Oh, so there’s been some uproar. Reee-donkulous. You can’t say anything anymore.
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Edited at 2012-04-18 05:39 pm (UTC)
And to be fair, I know quite a few trans people who say tranny, so I honestly think it depends on the region/community/etc. (Though that doesn't mean I feel like I have the right to say it, just to clarify.)
Edited at 2012-04-18 05:58 pm (UTC)
Yeah, well we can't burn people at the stake anymore either. Are you going to complain about that too?
Edited at 2012-04-18 05:39 pm (UTC)
just because you don't mean to trip doesn't mean you won't fall. intent means pretty much nothing
I now know who Chloe Sevigny is.
tradskins, out. tbh.
lol @ them trying to throw Blake under the bus tho.
http://www.hulu.com/watch/11932/saturda
like calling people the n-word, f-word, etc, just because you aren't a racist or a homophobe doesn't give you license to use it (unless you are part of the community to which the slurs belong).
i hate when people say "that's so gay" or "stop being a such a girl". their INTENT was probably not bad, the people i usually hear those statements from are not bad people, but i'm just like dude, seriously? please take responsibility for the ideas you are perpetuating just by making those statements.
The way the world is not, means any white person rapping along with Snoop is a racist because they sing the N word. or every straight person becomes a homophobe when they scream the F word with Brian Kinney while watching QAF, because you are into the show. I mean I feel just a tad infantile having to say N word and F word like I am talking around a group old 3 year olds.
I was taught not to call names or use slurs but I think it was a common sense, good for the world type thing and not because my parents didn't think those words should be taken from our vocabulary.
OH GOD I KNOW. I fucking cannot stand when people say shit like that. So many of my high school friends loved to say "that's so gay" irl and whenever I'd sarcastically go "Yeah, that is totally homosexual......" and give them a look like "come on, guys," they did not get it. They eventually started actually saying "This is so homosexual" when something bag happened (wtf) or they'd write it as "ghey" and I was like "Ugh, I cannot." What sucks even more about this is that so many of them would claim to be totally anti-homophobia and would get upset on behalf of this very stereotypically gay boy in our grade when the other guys would give him shit (he eventually transfered to another school down the road and didn't visit our school much after that...) and would routinely ask me in an accusatory way if I was a lesbian (as if it was a bad thing! wtf!) when I wasn't going on and on about ~hawt guys omg~ like they were (sorry if I find that embarrassing and awkward to talk about!) and I would always be like "And what if I was?" or "Why does it matter...?" Honestly, I'm so glad I don't see these dipshits anymore.
And don't even get me started on girls and women who say shit like "I can see your vagina from here" when a guy is being "a wimp" or "stop being such a girl," or whatever. I will go off on a page-long rant if I don't stop right here.
the girl he's friends with too, she refers to him as her "gay best friend." when i first met him, we were at a crowded club, so i let it slide when she said that bc i thought maybe she was just trying to tell us that it's cool, he's gay, he won't try to hit on you etc. but she kept saying it and i'm like...umm you know he's not an accessory, right? and she invites him to all the "girls' nights" etc, which i don't mind, but i'm like...our mutual love of dick does not make him a girl, the same way lesbians don't become boys just because they like vagina.
one person accused me of always getting on the "moral highground." i'm like...really? moral highground? you saying shit like slut and cunt is personally offensive to me, i'm telling you to stop offending me and women everywhere. in no way does that imply a holier than thou attitude. the GIRLS in the group were like "please don't say slut, don't get her started"-- like, don't use that word to avoid getting me mad, not because it's fucking offensive. these other girls were calling 14-15 year old girls sluts because they were wearing short shorts on the BEACH. just so much wtf.
some people get it, most people don't. my bf actually told me i helped open up his eyes to a lot of discrimination women face today, which was cool. i also used to live with 3 guys, and they also told me i helped raise some awareness with them (one of them always sends me pro-women related articles haha).
sorry for the tl;dr, but yeah...i feel you :)
i'm a male bodied genderqueer who is attracted to guys and a sociology major and i still don't know everything when it comes to social justice...and i'd be the first one to admit that. while i pride myself on being pro-social justice as much as i can, when i'm called out for being ignorant on something i THANK the people who did because i'm being EDUCATED by them. what's the worst than can happen by admitting you were wrong? oh wait, nothing but becoming educated afterward to help STOP this kind of behavior that perpetuates transphobia.
I know, it's so hard to take slurs against LGBTQ and POC out of your vocabulary. I feel so so bad for you.
Edited at 2012-04-18 05:53 pm (UTC)
What a struggle it must be to have to switch out a whole entire word when referring to a group of people. Mebbe they have support groups for that.