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2:53 am - 04/10/2012

Zooey Deschanel doesn't want kids




From her Marie Claire interview:

On not wanting children: “That’s never been my focus… My sister [Emily] was always very motherly, babysitting and stuff. I like kids, and I like being around kids – but it was never an ambition, something, like, I need…I like working. That’s what I like doing. I like to work.”

She‘s not good in interviews: “I don’t do well with direct questions,” she admits. Deschanel tends to think out loud, talking in rough drafts, starting a sentence, then stopping, then starting another one, crumpling that one up, too. “I’m a person who gets better with practice,” she says. “Getting older is awesome — because you get more practice.”

Finding a new kind of fame on television: “It’s harder to do normal things,” she says. No longer can she run blithely into Ralph’s for a head of lettuce or some paper towels. “I think that if you haven’t been to the grocery store in a really long time, it’s really easy to get very out of touch,” she says.

Zooey on the criticism that she’s playing a “stereotype of female meekness, for being too girly, too dorky, too Zooey.”: “People do think I’m weird,” she says. “I don’t know why.”

On her career: “I always knew there was nothing else I wanted to do,” she says. “I wanted to sing, perform, act.”

She was a chubby kid, and she was bullied: At 12 she was “chubby,” which made her a target of bullies. “I was ridiculed. I still have in me the same awareness when I was 12 and chubby and a girl was spitting in my face. I’m the same person. Certainly you change, and you change perspective, you have other experiences. But isn’t it funny – I can still remember when I was treated differently from the way I’m treated now…I really don’t know why she spit at me. I just talked to her. I guess I wasn’t allowed to talk to her. I remember I couldn’t believe it.” The moment was searing, scarring, but ultimately transformative. It inspired Deschanel to reimagine herself, and over the next year, she carefully, painstakingly recast her persona, becoming more open, more empathic, less “stubborn.” She also shed 30 pounds. “All of a sudden,” she says, “everybody treated me differently.”

On whether she’s dating: “Honestly, I’m just going through a divorce, so I don’t really think that’s something I want to get into now. I don’t have time to date. I literally – don’t-have-time.”

Source
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__trendwhore 10th-Apr-2012 02:13 am (UTC)
cant shade her, as of now i don't want kids. granted i'm only 24 and this may change.. but yeah i don't think so. just not for me
wristtattoos 10th-Apr-2012 03:08 am (UTC)
iawtc
emerald_soul 10th-Apr-2012 02:13 am (UTC)
Well she wants to be 8 forever so...
hypermuseic9 10th-Apr-2012 02:16 am (UTC)
lol mte
fullxcliphxc 10th-Apr-2012 02:17 am (UTC)
lmao
mcpofife 10th-Apr-2012 02:17 am (UTC)
not having kids has nothing to do with being childish
bluebandit77 10th-Apr-2012 02:19 am (UTC)
childish and childlike are apples and oranges
emerald_soul 10th-Apr-2012 02:20 am (UTC)
She's child-like all on her own. I just don't find it surprising she doesn't want kids because of it.

queen_katpierce 10th-Apr-2012 02:20 am (UTC)
.....What?
tiddlywinks103 10th-Apr-2012 04:31 am (UTC)
rme@your crap logic/joke
mari_lyn00 10th-Apr-2012 09:20 am (UTC)
mte
violue 10th-Apr-2012 11:12 am (UTC)
So glad these good people were here to put you in your place after your highly offensive remark. My gracious!
elementalranger 10th-Apr-2012 02:13 am (UTC)
yes! a kid hating post
vanishingbee 10th-Apr-2012 02:13 am (UTC)
bluebandit77 10th-Apr-2012 02:19 am (UTC)
good sketch tbh
vanishingbee 10th-Apr-2012 02:24 am (UTC)
good episode lbr
mario_06 10th-Apr-2012 02:31 am (UTC)
Link to sketch?
juanbomb 10th-Apr-2012 02:33 am (UTC)
where is this from? snl? link?
suwillgetu 10th-Apr-2012 02:58 am (UTC)
She was so good in this sketch!
j_lilypad_j 10th-Apr-2012 02:14 am (UTC)
I like kids, but I have also have very little patience and have had the urge to beat my siblings more than once lol...so I don't think kids are in my future tbh
fruitariyum 10th-Apr-2012 02:58 am (UTC)
yeah i dealt w/ my lil brother by throwing shoes @ him. i wouldnt b able 2 deal w/ not having dat option in my bag o' tricks for any kids of my own.
gabriella 10th-Apr-2012 02:14 am (UTC)
The world is going to miss out some stunning and perfect babies
dfabb 10th-Apr-2012 02:24 am (UTC)
Plus she'd be an awesome mom for their first ten years or so.. can you imagine the fun and quirkiness?

Edited at 2012-04-10 02:25 am (UTC)
onanemptyshore 10th-Apr-2012 02:14 am (UTC)
i didn't want kids when i was her age, but now that i'm older they're my entire life and i can't imagine my life without them. she'll get it out of her system
/sarcasm
fenchurchly 10th-Apr-2012 03:25 am (UTC)
I was about to throw you so much shade and then I saw the / (aka the OG hashtag).

IAWTC

Edited at 2012-04-10 03:26 am (UTC)
onanemptyshore 10th-Apr-2012 03:27 am (UTC)
girl, i'm 23 and my uterus currently has a no vacancies sign (my vagina, however, says come on in)
anolinde 10th-Apr-2012 04:05 am (UTC)
I get that so often from my mom!!! Like, cool, just because YOU changed your mind I guess that means I'M going to change my mind.
comalies 10th-Apr-2012 02:14 am (UTC)
I can't wrap my head around the fact that she's getting divorced because she comes off as a complete child.
ciccones 10th-Apr-2012 02:15 am (UTC)
mte

i had to reread that last sentence :/
thedpmiss 10th-Apr-2012 02:20 am (UTC)
I guess her husband was tired of solving arguments with danceoffs
dfabb 10th-Apr-2012 02:25 am (UTC)
LOL
champagnexdream 10th-Apr-2012 02:41 am (UTC)
Dead.
mickeymouse 10th-Apr-2012 03:43 am (UTC)
lolllll
emerging 10th-Apr-2012 01:45 pm (UTC)
LOL

i remember watching her on chelsea lately and she said they'd high five each other when they passed by each other in the hallway of their house

SUCH A GD HIPSTER. she's too cool for school.
shantayustay 10th-Apr-2012 02:22 am (UTC)
Gluten free foodssss
in_suburb 10th-Apr-2012 04:30 am (UTC)
I didn't know she was married 0_0
couturelights 10th-Apr-2012 05:44 am (UTC)
wait what?
seriously?
myroomiswhite88 10th-Apr-2012 07:43 am (UTC)
didn't she JUST get married(or was it 2009?)??? oh noezz
empirebird 10th-Apr-2012 02:15 am (UTC)
I want like, 5, spaced out by 5 years. 1st one by birth the rest adoption. IT IS MY PLAN.
cl0vergirl 10th-Apr-2012 03:24 am (UTC)
i read your comment and thought about it and...damn! assuming you pop the first one out in your mid 20s and they all go to college and you will be paying for all or part of their education (at least 20 years of paying for higher education) you would be shelling out until you're like 60.
empirebird 10th-Apr-2012 03:26 am (UTC)
Yup!
crucified 10th-Apr-2012 02:15 am (UTC)
I definitely don't want kids. I'd be an awful parent, I'm selfish and impatient.
josiefier 10th-Apr-2012 02:17 am (UTC)
Yep, same.
chrislola 10th-Apr-2012 02:20 am (UTC)
same
shantayustay 10th-Apr-2012 02:21 am (UTC)
LOL same here. That will never change.
ludagurl3d 10th-Apr-2012 02:24 am (UTC)
lol yeah this is me. i would screw up a child.
marmar627 10th-Apr-2012 02:27 am (UTC)
ikr? There was this annoying kid in front of me at church this weekend and I was just so angry. I wouldn't be able to deal with it all the time, I was getting so annoying for 90 minutes!
twowaymirrrors 10th-Apr-2012 02:28 am (UTC)
Yep, me too
flamed65 10th-Apr-2012 02:32 am (UTC)
same even though i don't think i'm that selfish

i just dont like kids
crucified 10th-Apr-2012 02:35 am (UTC)
omg your icon. <3

and lol there's that, too.
la_guillotine 10th-Apr-2012 02:33 am (UTC)
that's me to a T. The thought of having to be 24/7 responsible for an actual person, for LIFE...hell on earth IMO.
leviicorpus 10th-Apr-2012 02:35 am (UTC)
lol yes
forkmeup 10th-Apr-2012 02:38 am (UTC)
same.
mrchilliman 10th-Apr-2012 02:43 am (UTC)
lol me2
mrsarigold 10th-Apr-2012 02:52 am (UTC)
me too
victory_goddess 10th-Apr-2012 02:53 am (UTC)
Ditto. And I'm 29, by this point, I'm not changing.
endingonfire 10th-Apr-2012 02:55 am (UTC)
same.
sandstorm 10th-Apr-2012 02:55 am (UTC)
Oh this. I think it's safer for the child if I not have one.
theladyspeaks 10th-Apr-2012 03:18 am (UTC)
Me exactly.
bb_kb 10th-Apr-2012 03:20 am (UTC)
same. it kind of makes me sad, but mostly it doesnt because i am who i am and all i can do is try to be a little better every day.
id also be too hard on myself. if i fucked something up, id feel guilty for forever
cl0vergirl 10th-Apr-2012 03:26 am (UTC)
me too. never wanted one never will. i hate it when people assume that i dont want kids because i hate them. uh no. im just responsible and realistic enough to know what i want and dont want and what i can handle and what i cant.
hausofashley 10th-Apr-2012 03:41 am (UTC)
I don't think I'd be awful, but I definitely don't want give up a lot for a child.

I have my cats, and that's all the mothering I need.
allopatric 10th-Apr-2012 03:51 am (UTC)
idk if I'm selfish or impatient (no knows maybe I am). anyways I just don't want to be responsible for another human beings life
pseudovirus 10th-Apr-2012 04:15 am (UTC)
same
in_styles 10th-Apr-2012 05:09 am (UTC)
ikr
iotajot 10th-Apr-2012 05:11 am (UTC)
Yep thats me. Why spend money on a kid when I could spend it on myself.
pastelstar 10th-Apr-2012 05:16 am (UTC)
me too. I think about it sometimes, since I'm surrounded by kids all day and all my friends are having bbs, but in all seriousness, having kids would cut into my watching tv, ONTD all day and night lifestyle.

I'm the fun aunt/godmother.
flirflir 10th-Apr-2012 06:48 am (UTC)
same
enael 10th-Apr-2012 07:45 am (UTC)
moi aussi.
chantonii 10th-Apr-2012 09:58 am (UTC)
Sorry but your comment reminded me of this LOL-
“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”


I should put it on my fb because I'm so deep~
x_materialize_x 10th-Apr-2012 12:59 pm (UTC)
Totally
marishna 11th-Apr-2012 03:35 am (UTC)
This, basically. The thought of having to be around someone else constantly for 18 years EXHAUSTS me. I can only stand a couple hours of someone before I'm ready to be by myself again. I'd gladly have a kid FOR someone else but I don't want to keep it. I should just slap a big 'ole "uterus for rent" sign on my body.
angelmonster 10th-Apr-2012 02:15 am (UTC)
And kids don't want her. Wah waaaaaaaaah.
williammiller 10th-Apr-2012 02:15 am (UTC)
I definitely don't see myself have children. If I did want to later on down the line, I'd probably adopt. I can't imagine myself being pregnant. No fucking way.
hellb 10th-Apr-2012 01:48 pm (UTC)
Pregnancy is tragic--especially to attractive women. Gets them EVERY time...

I am way to vain to allow my body to morph in such an unsavory fashion. Not to mention that I greatly dislike kids. Hence, it's a no-brainer to me.

josiefier 10th-Apr-2012 02:16 am (UTC)
Go Zooey! I knew from the age of 15 I didn't want kids. I'm okay with the idea of being a step-mother or something, but I'm perfectly happy without having any of my own.
ioso 10th-Apr-2012 02:16 am (UTC)
I don't want to subject my children to this fucked up planet tbh.
__trendwhore 10th-Apr-2012 02:24 am (UTC)
srsly.. and it's only gonna get worse! /optimist
bb_kb 10th-Apr-2012 03:23 am (UTC)
same
stormer1_1 10th-Apr-2012 03:30 am (UTC)
Yeah. I actually love kids too much to subject them to that.
cab 10th-Apr-2012 02:17 am (UTC)
well she acts like one herself soo
shantayustay 10th-Apr-2012 02:18 am (UTC)
As an adult child, I agree.
polekatz 10th-Apr-2012 03:03 am (UTC)
sooo?
tiddlywinks103 10th-Apr-2012 03:53 am (UTC)
HOW?!?!!?

She works steadily and professionally, pays her own bills, and is respectful and nuanced in her interviews. How does a polka dot, A-line dress negate actual adult fucking accomplishments??? I mean what IS this shit????
kimberwyn 10th-Apr-2012 04:02 am (UTC)
lol, TY. quirky =/= childish.
heartstopper 10th-Apr-2012 04:22 am (UTC)
a+ comment tbh. zooey is just sooooo childish with her decent career and behaviour. pls take these comments to the next amanda bynes dui post, haters.

Edited at 2012-04-10 04:23 am (UTC)
flirflir 10th-Apr-2012 06:49 am (UTC)
ikr. these fucking comments. i can´t
orangemusictrip 10th-Apr-2012 07:04 am (UTC)
ia

and when does a character dictate what a real person is like??
crup 10th-Apr-2012 09:56 am (UTC)
lol srsly. i remember that post about what she typically spends in a month and she was so sensible with her money!
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