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4:12 am - 02/18/2012

At Whitney Houston's funeral, faith more than fame





A close friend of Whitney Houston's family may have said it best: They would have loved her, even if she couldn't sing.

But how she could sing.

Houston, the six-time Grammy Award winner and only artist to consecutively chart seven No. 1 hits, will be remembered Saturday in the Newark, New Jersey, church where she performed as a child in front of her family and community.

In addition to her family, those expected to celebrate Houston's life at New Hope Baptist Church will include entertainment mogul Tyler Perry; "The Queen of Soul," Aretha Franklin; Grammy Award winner Stevie Wonder; and Academy Award winner Kevin Costner.

The fact that Houston's funeral will bring a coterie of "A-listers" together is hardly surprising. After all, she had worked for nearly 30 years with the best in the business.

But it isn't her fame that will be most celebrated at the invitation-only funeral beginning at noon, said family friend and Pastor Marvin Winans.

Instead, the message to the 1,500 mourners expected to fill the red-brick church -- and the millions more watching on television or online -- will be reminiscent of words from Paul the Apostle.

"And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love."
For a few hours Saturday, the story won't be about Houston's reported drinking days before she died or about the prescription pills being tested as investigators seek a cause of her still-unexplained death a week ago at the Beverly Hilton in Beverly Hills, California.

In Newark, 2,700 miles away from Los Angeles, they will remember the 11-year-old girl nicknamed "Nippy," who followed in the footsteps of her mother, Cissy, by singing in the junior gospel choir. They will remember Houston the superstar, returning for Easter Sunday services, never losing her roots after making it big.

They will remember, through tears and joy, that incredible voice.

Houston's family will be comforted by neighbors and fellow church members in what the family is calling a "home going" service, according to the funeral invitation that features a photo of a smiling Houston.

Still, the singer's death at age 48, after a much-publicized struggle with addiction and a tumultuous marriage to R&B bad boy Bobby Brown, has raised questions about fame and the fragility of life -- finding meaning in the unexpected loss of such a talented individual.

In the words of Winans, who will deliver the eulogy, "Faith plays a great part in how we cope with uncertainties in life. It is not something that we run from in difficulty, it is something we run to."

That belief in God, and tradition, will permeate Saturday's service.

Friday night, Franklin paid tribute to Houston at a Radio City Music Hall concert in New York.
"We will always remember her kindness, her grace, her smile and her dynamic performances. But she's moved on up just a little bit higher now, and we don't wonder where she is," said Franklin.

The Houston family opted to forgo a public memorial service.

They didn't "want to have a parade," Winans told CNN's Anderson Cooper. Their message, he said: "We want to do this with dignity."

There will not be a customary funeral procession, Newark police Director Samuel DiMaio said Thursday. Houston's family and her body will arrive at an undisclosed time, he said.

"I would advise the public that there really is going to be nothing to see here at the church," DiMaio said. "The best thing to do would be to stay home and watch the service on television. .... The funeral is not going to be the traditional procession that we would normally have."

A perimeter has been set up for four blocks in two directions, and two blocks in the other directions, DiMaio said. The closest the public will be able to get is a staging area two blocks away.

Houston leaves behind an 18-year-old daughter, Bobbi Christina Brown; her mother, Cissy; brothers; a cousin; and a host of relatives and friends.

Cissy Houston and Bobbi Christina attended a private viewing Friday, accompanied by producer Clive Davis, a longtime mentor of the singer.

Born in 1963 in Newark, Houston had musical greatness in her blood.

Cissy Houston is a gospel great and cousin Dionne Warwick was a successful pop singer. Franklin is a close family friend.

After various appearances while a teen and performing backup vocals for Chaka Khan on "I'm Every Woman," Houston had her big break.

As the story goes, Davis spotted Houston in 1983 in a New York nightclub performing and signed her on the spot. Houston released her debut album, "Whitney Houston," in February 1985 to wide acclaim.

A generation danced their way through the 1980s to a string of her hits, including the poppy "How Will I Know," "Saving All My Love For You," "I Wanna Dance With Somebody" and "The Greatest Love Of All."

Her rendition of "The Star Spangled Banner" at the 1991 Super Bowl and "I Will Always Love You" in the movie "The Bodyguard," in which she made her acting debut, cemented her superstar status.

But by the time the movie opened, Houston's clean-cut pop image had begun to tarnish with her marriage to Bobby Brown. The two met in 1989 and married three years later.

Their relationship became tabloid fodder, with every misstep chronicled and the couple's relationship a subject of constant speculation. Brown's notorious hard-partying led him to several run-ins with the law and stints in jail.

While Houston managed to maintain a successful music and movie career through the end of the 1990s, starring in "The Preacher's Wife" and "Waiting To Exhale," her behavior turned increasingly erratic amid reports of heavy drug use.

By the 2000s, her career was in free fall as her album sales dropped off and her voice began to show signs of wear. She and Brown divorced in 2007.

Recently, Houston was working to turn around her career -- and image -- with a star turn in the upcoming movie "Sparkle,'' the remake of a 1976 film that is said to be loosely inspired by the Supremes.

Pastor Winans' brother, Benjamin "BeBe" Winans, said his sister, CeCe, will perform "Don't Cry for Me" at Saturday's service.

Houston performed the song in many countries, Winans told A.J. Hammer of HLN's "Showbiz Tonight."

The song is about life, loss and hope.
"My death was meant to be
Don't carry guilt or shame
The reason why I came soon you'll see.
Don't cry for me"


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stylista_11 18th-Feb-2012 02:59 pm (UTC)
WHITNEY WE LOVE YOUUUU!
pathologie 18th-Feb-2012 02:59 pm (UTC)
They sound like such a loving family.
angelmonster 18th-Feb-2012 03:01 pm (UTC)
I hope no crazies show up at the funeral. RIP.
overprotected 18th-Feb-2012 03:24 pm (UTC)
I think the WBC already said they were gonna picket it

smh.
razetora 18th-Feb-2012 03:38 pm (UTC)
assholes
godramaclub 18th-Feb-2012 04:40 pm (UTC)
Ugh why tho.
crazyjaney 18th-Feb-2012 04:44 pm (UTC)
If they do I hope Whitney comes back to life and says:

leomentlines 18th-Feb-2012 04:52 pm (UTC)
if they do i'm driving down and picketing right the fuck back... i'm sick of their shit
xshadycakes 18th-Feb-2012 03:03 pm (UTC)
God bless her family.
filmfreakfranco 18th-Feb-2012 03:09 pm (UTC)
Does it start at 8?
slaughtermatic 18th-Feb-2012 03:12 pm (UTC)
fiddlemearound 18th-Feb-2012 03:17 pm (UTC)
loll
slaughtermatic 18th-Feb-2012 03:20 pm (UTC)
heaven is flawless rn.
xsnickerzzx 18th-Feb-2012 03:31 pm (UTC)
lmao @ snoop being in heaven
kriskross 18th-Feb-2012 03:38 pm (UTC)
OMG Snoop Dogg, get out of there! We still need you down here.
erraticxemotion 18th-Feb-2012 03:39 pm (UTC)
omg snoop wat are you doin in heaven
tuluum 18th-Feb-2012 05:14 pm (UTC)
the elegance that only blingee can bring :*)
paulmitchell 18th-Feb-2012 05:49 pm (UTC)
omg i am seriously laughing way too hard at this and i feel bad because my boyfriend is asleep, snoop is cracking me up
ahzuri 18th-Feb-2012 06:26 pm (UTC)
Hahah Oh Snoop, all this does is serve to remind me of this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-b2w4CU6Vc4
muzicnem 18th-Feb-2012 06:44 pm (UTC)
lmao @ snoop in the back
wahootrollop 18th-Feb-2012 03:12 pm (UTC)
Good, as it should be. She knew enough pressure in her life, let her rest now.
fionaapple 18th-Feb-2012 03:14 pm (UTC)
The amount of people on Facebook talking about how we're "commemorating a pop star with drug habits" is pissing me off. Whitney's drug habits had nothing to do with her music, respect her for the seasoned and amazing artist she is.
filmfreakfranco 18th-Feb-2012 03:16 pm (UTC)
nothing is worse than the ~*~*~thousands of people died but nobody cares about them~*~*~
fionaapple 18th-Feb-2012 03:22 pm (UTC)
Oh Jesus, I know. My feed is riddled with "THOUSANDS OF SOLDIERS DIED BUT WE HONOR WITNEY (sic) AND HER DRUG HABITS!!!11!" picture memes. Just let the woman rest in peace, damn.
bettalaylow 18th-Feb-2012 03:28 pm (UTC)
OMG THIS SFM!!
sinistres 18th-Feb-2012 04:00 pm (UTC)
lol ikr. i'm schooling conservative christians on this rn.
overprotected 18th-Feb-2012 03:27 pm (UTC)
I seriously cannot with people sometimes.

Regardless of her vices... she made a large contribution to music, and above all, she's still a person, drug addiction or no drug addiction... to mourn her loss and celebrate her life is the only acceptable thing TO do.
nasstasja_sk 18th-Feb-2012 03:42 pm (UTC)
THIS
demented_21 18th-Feb-2012 03:58 pm (UTC)
lol omg tho, some of the GREATEST artists ever were drugged to the gills. That is such a ridic argument. Are we supposed to ignore, like, Jimi Hendrix? I can't.
jessashoutbaby 18th-Feb-2012 04:55 pm (UTC)
Ikr? As if you can't feel sad for the lives of soldiers lost AND mourn Whitney's death. They can fuck right off.
tuluum 18th-Feb-2012 05:17 pm (UTC)
been avoiding social media since her death cos i just can't... esp, since a lot of it has such racist undertones too... never see people talk about elvis or marilyn or countless white artists this way :|
crazyfirecrotch 18th-Feb-2012 06:03 pm (UTC)
You dont wanna know how bad I want to castrate these assholes.
thetxbelle 18th-Feb-2012 06:08 pm (UTC)
This doesnt even make sense to me, it's a funeral for God's sake...everyone gets a funeral but this one is just televised. ONTD people have the weirdest friends. I think maybe 5 people mentioned her on my feed when she died and it was all positive things.
muzicnem 18th-Feb-2012 06:45 pm (UTC)
IKR, I can't handle these assholes.
loganx2 18th-Feb-2012 03:34 pm (UTC)
ugh I know people want to watch this but please dont watch it on tmz they are scum. Bathtub pics etc. so many others streaming dont go to tmz.
prettywitch 18th-Feb-2012 03:44 pm (UTC)
People is gonna be streaming too
kriskross 18th-Feb-2012 05:25 pm (UTC)
So are they letting Bobby into the funeral? I never heard if a decision was made...
fiddlemearound 18th-Feb-2012 03:16 pm (UTC)
Oh I forgot the funeral was today :(
karinette001 18th-Feb-2012 03:18 pm (UTC)
we will NEVER FORGET YOU DARLIN' :(

totes watching The Bodyguard tonight
ts231 18th-Feb-2012 04:21 pm (UTC)
don't forget rogers & hammerstein's cinderella!! that's first on my list
karinette001 18th-Feb-2012 04:21 pm (UTC)
OMG YESSSSS
overprotected 18th-Feb-2012 03:29 pm (UTC)
I hope that you're finally free from the chains that bound you in life, rest in peace Whitney. <3
xsnickerzzx 18th-Feb-2012 03:32 pm (UTC)
RIP!! <3
neonxstardust 18th-Feb-2012 03:34 pm (UTC)
I'm not sure how I feel about CNN's special coverage of her funeral, it seems like it's going a bit far...
neonxstardust 18th-Feb-2012 03:37 pm (UTC)
Not that she shouldn't have coverage, but coverage surrounding her funeral seems a little invasive.
almightyspaz 18th-Feb-2012 03:39 pm (UTC)
I always feel bad for the families. They want to have a funeral and they have all these cameras everywhere.
neonxstardust 18th-Feb-2012 03:41 pm (UTC)
Exactly, I think they should be allowed to grieve privately. (sidenote, I love your icon, I'm playing it atm & it's scaring the shit out of me!)
thetxbelle 18th-Feb-2012 06:10 pm (UTC)
If they wanted a private funeral they couldve had one but they chose to let news outlets film it.
godramaclub 18th-Feb-2012 04:43 pm (UTC)
I always feel like it might be better to have a private funeral for close friends and family to attend and then, because obviously fans care about her too, have a televised memorial thing for them to tune into separate from the actual funeral.
tuluum 18th-Feb-2012 05:19 pm (UTC)
it's the family that invited/allowed the cameras. it's being carried by the bbc and many more international outlets as well.
lizziey 18th-Feb-2012 05:46 pm (UTC)
LOL I'm watching THEIR stream of the funeral right now. Ha.
thetxbelle 18th-Feb-2012 06:09 pm (UTC)
Im assuming the family consented to this and wants this on TV, if they didnt wouldnt it be a private event? So really CNN isnt to blame imo.
javdiosa80 18th-Feb-2012 03:34 pm (UTC)
RIP
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