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Meryl Streep: Straight Men Don't Live Through Female Characters

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Earlier this week, Terry Gross broadcast a provocative interview with Meryl Streep on her NPR program Fresh Air.

The interview was tied to Streep’s unprecedented 17th Oscar nomination for her role as Margaret Thatcher in The Iron Lady. But Gross also used the opportunity to ask Streep about some insightful comments she made during her Commencement Address to the graduates of Barnard College in 2010.

First here are some excerpts from Streep’s Barnard speech:

The hardest thing in the world is to persuade a straight male audience to identify with a woman character. It's easier for women because we were brought up identifying with male characters in literature. It's hard for straight boys to identify with Juliet or Wendy in Peter Pan, whereas girls identify with Romeo and with Peter Pan…

They [men of my generation] professionally can’t hear us…



Now here are some excerpts from Streep’s conversation with Gross:

GROSS: ...I want to quote something else you said, and this was in the Barnard speech that you gave in 2010, that "The hardest thing in the world is to persuade a straight male audience to identify with a woman character. It's easier for women because we were brought up identifying with male characters in literature. It's hard for straight boys to identify with Juliet or Wendy in Peter Pan, whereas girls identify with Romeo and with Peter Pan." What led you to that conclusion?

STREEP: I watch movies and I don't care who is the protagonist, I feel what that guy is feeling. You know, if it's Tom Cruise leaping over a building I, I want to make it, you know? And I'm going to, yes, I made it. And yeah, so I get that.

And I've grown up, well, partly because there weren't great girls' literature. Nancy Drew maybe. But there weren't things. So there was Huck Finn and Spin and Marty. The boys' characters were interesting and you lived through them when you're watching it. You know, you're not aware of it but you're following the action of the film through the body of the protagonist.

You know, you feel what he feels when he jumps, when he leaps, when he wins, when he loses. And I think I just took it for granted that, you know, we can all do that. But it became obvious to me that men don't live through the female characters.


GROSS: Do you think that women have that kind of double consciousness and men, you think, like, boys... don't make that leap…

STREEP: Well, it has to do with very deep things, you know, because it might be that imagining yourself as a girl is a diminishment…But I don't know, I really think there's a difference between how men critics see things than how women tend to…

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wauwy 11th-Feb-2012 01:28 pm (UTC)
She ain't lyin'.
andromakhe001 12th-Feb-2012 09:44 am (UTC)
It's totally true, they've done studies on it. Like boys and girls read books, girls identify with both male and female characters whereas boys won't identify with the female characters. Obviously there are exceptions to the rule but generally speaking men don't identify with female characters the way women will identify with male characters.

I'd say it all comes down to men being taught almost from the time they are in diapers that anything female is somehow lesser.
benihime99 11th-Feb-2012 01:29 pm (UTC)
I kindda agree tbh.
Men seldom identify with female character or if they do they're not open about it.
biliki 11th-Feb-2012 01:31 pm (UTC)
She's right tbh.
bellyroomfan 11th-Feb-2012 01:31 pm (UTC)
i do not identify with fucking romeo!
this defense is bullshit. women are forced to identify with male roles so should men be forced to identify with female roles.
lucciolaa 11th-Feb-2012 01:36 pm (UTC)
She's not defending the way things are now, she's commenting on it.
bellyroomfan 11th-Feb-2012 01:39 pm (UTC)
i know but i just hate this line of thought is all, esp. when they try to play it off like women are just ~naturally~ more empathetic then men.
love meryl though, she's an angel.
lucciolaa 11th-Feb-2012 01:33 pm (UTC)
Interesting point, ia. I remember in grade 11 when we spent the first half of the course reading books where the main theme was 'what makes a man' (Macbeth, Frankenstein, Fifth Business) and the second half was about women (Miss Julie, Hedda Gabler) and the guys were so ass over tits confused.
lucciolaa 11th-Feb-2012 01:35 pm (UTC)
*confused and uninterested.
rhapsodyx3 11th-Feb-2012 02:13 pm (UTC)
Yeah, same thing here. We read The Makioka Sisters, which is a novel about four women, and literally none of the other guys could get through it.
anneelter 11th-Feb-2012 02:13 pm (UTC)
i never saw frankenstein in that light. i always read it in an allegorical way. please tell me more? it's my favourite book.
lucciolaa 11th-Feb-2012 02:29 pm (UTC)
Oh, I hated Frankenstein, and I'm not sure how much of it I can recall from then, but basically it can be seen as a discussion about what makes a man (or what defines humanity) in the parallels between Frankenstein and his monster. We have the monster, who was the result of an unorthodox experiment and who is grotesque and hideous, and is rejected by society despite his otherwise kind and intelligent nature, and he's contrasted with Frankenstein, who is legitimately human and though the one who is accepted into society, he's cruel, ambitious, selfish, and secretive.

The way to look at it is basically the the monster is who the doctor should be and the doctor is the true 'monster' of the story. It's quite sad, really.
slacker_chic 11th-Feb-2012 03:52 pm (UTC)
ugh I can totally see this happening too. The worst part is it's subconscious so they probably don't even realize.
beatlesluv 11th-Feb-2012 06:28 pm (UTC)
YES. It's the same in University with a few good ones like "H.D" and Larsen put in. Mainly though it's men writing about what makes men and how you go from being a boy to being a man.
duchello 11th-Feb-2012 11:49 pm (UTC)
I <3 Hedda Gabler
mv75 11th-Feb-2012 01:35 pm (UTC)
IA Meryl
insomniachobs 11th-Feb-2012 01:35 pm (UTC)
I can see how that might be true. There definitely is something in the ways guys are socialised which says that being into "girly shit" or whatever is a negative.
angi_is_altered 11th-Feb-2012 01:38 pm (UTC)
I totally agree. Most of the books,movies and television shows I consume have male leads that I can identify with much more then many female characters out there.
coxpoppy 11th-Feb-2012 01:39 pm (UTC)
Very true, and it's perpetuated through television. You have characters like Deborah from Everybody Loves Raymond or Claire from Modern Family who are all "mom is grumpy, never wants sex, and is always mad at her husband" to the point they're just flat characters who get pissy at everything. You'd think the writers never met a woman before.
stupidsxyflndrs 11th-Feb-2012 01:43 pm (UTC)
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pippa_middleton 11th-Feb-2012 01:45 pm (UTC)
nightmares
stupidsxyflndrs 11th-Feb-2012 01:46 pm (UTC)
freeze_i_say 11th-Feb-2012 05:22 pm (UTC)
.
300psychosis 11th-Feb-2012 01:48 pm (UTC)
I've seen this all over my Tumblr dash during the last days.
It's a lovely quote :)
lucciolaa 11th-Feb-2012 01:51 pm (UTC)
I love that.
zparklemotion 11th-Feb-2012 01:59 pm (UTC)
:)
bienenkiste 11th-Feb-2012 02:09 pm (UTC)
A+
derrobitch 11th-Feb-2012 02:20 pm (UTC)
"It's okay for a woman to dress like a man but for a man to dress up like a woman is degrading, because you think being a woman is degrading."
xtinkerbellax 11th-Feb-2012 02:27 pm (UTC)
This reminds me of that story where he was drunk walking down Sunset or somewhere and his manager had to come pick him up in jail and when he got there her was like, "Iggy why are you wearing a woman's dress?" and Iggy said something to the effect of, "I beg to differ, this is a man's dress".
slacker_chic 11th-Feb-2012 03:53 pm (UTC)
Good for Iggy! I love this ssssssfm
numbedtoe 11th-Feb-2012 04:26 pm (UTC)
And that is just one of a thousand reasons why I fucking love Iggy Pop.
anna_bea2 11th-Feb-2012 04:52 pm (UTC)
lol <3
freeze_i_say 11th-Feb-2012 05:21 pm (UTC)
god bows down to iggy <3
aflaminghalo 11th-Feb-2012 05:49 pm (UTC)
No lie Iggy, no lie.



icangoforthat 11th-Feb-2012 05:50 pm (UTC)
WERK IGGY!
piratesswoop 11th-Feb-2012 06:11 pm (UTC)
i'm dying @ these pics lmaooooo
beatlesluv 11th-Feb-2012 06:29 pm (UTC)
i love this man
mingemonster 11th-Feb-2012 06:42 pm (UTC)
i almost got to see him live a few years ago, but the weather got in the way

will never be over it
rhapsodeeinblue 11th-Feb-2012 08:50 pm (UTC)
Been seeing this all over Facebook and looove it
kimberwyn 12th-Feb-2012 08:36 am (UTC)
aww, good for him.
lavosspawn 11th-Feb-2012 01:44 pm (UTC)
Completely true.
awakejupiter 11th-Feb-2012 01:52 pm (UTC)
While what she says is true, I wish this wasn't used as an excuse by some to refuse to finance films with female leads. Women and girls can also bring in box office money. Look at Twilight, the big studios all turn it down and the independent Summit Entertainment picks it up and makes a fucking fortune.
x_butterfly19_x 11th-Feb-2012 01:54 pm (UTC)
It's so true.
fabricated__ 11th-Feb-2012 02:15 pm (UTC)
Yes, but the films are marketed more towards Jacob and Edward than they are Bella. No man is watching those movies and imagining themselves as Bella; that's for sure.
slacker_chic 11th-Feb-2012 03:56 pm (UTC)
my husband's best friend is the biggest beer drinking, pipe laying for a living guy's guy you can ever imagine and he has recently discovered Twilight. He has lost his fucking shit over that series and has been stalking Blockbuster trying to get the new movie. I kid you not. He thinks it's the second coming and it's hilarious.
enema_recipe 11th-Feb-2012 07:55 pm (UTC)
Agreed.
modern_toilet 11th-Feb-2012 01:54 pm (UTC)
yep. a movie about a man/all male cast? women won't protest going to it what so ever, or they'll be genuinely interested. a movie about a woman/all female cast? men won't even CONSIDER going.
must_go_faster 11th-Feb-2012 02:06 pm (UTC)
And it sucks that parents, culture as a whole and the media encourage or create this mindset in the first place in the minds of little boys, starting with subtle things like renaming Disney movies.
andromakhe001 12th-Feb-2012 09:50 am (UTC)
What happened? what movie did they rename? It's so ridiculous.
bienenkiste 11th-Feb-2012 02:10 pm (UTC)
UGH IKR.
where_i_begin 11th-Feb-2012 03:15 pm (UTC)
And films about relationships are often painted as "women's movies." Since men don't have relationships or something.
nicenicegirl 11th-Feb-2012 03:49 pm (UTC)
my friends husband refuses to go see any ~girly~ movies with her, won't even let her watch the movies in their house if he's there, she has to do it when she's alone or with friends. but he's a huge sexist asshole to begin with idk why she even married him in the first place.
x_butterfly19_x 11th-Feb-2012 01:55 pm (UTC)
She's correct.

Good luck with trying to break that cycle playing Maggie Thatcher.
velveteenkitten 11th-Feb-2012 02:03 pm (UTC)
Truth.
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