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5:31 pm - 01/02/2012

Kyle Richards thinks cheaters should get a free pass



She boasts about her happy marriage but a Real Wives of Beverly Hills reality TV star has some unusual advice for couples. Kyle Richards - who has been married to husband Mauricio Umansky for 16 years - says if you cheat on your spouse once, keep it a secret.

Good Morning America host Robin Roberts confronted the socialite about her beliefs on US breakfast TV this morning. The presenter said she wanted to ask Kyle what she meant by saying: 'If you cheat on your spouse once do not tell. You get a free pass...'

But the star was unapologetic. Kyle said: 'I know [sic] I was going to get some heat for that.' She then went on to describe one scenario saying: 'I've seen circumstances with people that I know are in love with their spouse and they made one mistake and I said - this is somebody that I know, nobody that anybody knows here, "Listen, if this really was a one time mistake, and you did not put this person in jeopardy, I personally think you should deal with it with yourself and with God and not go and say: 'Honey look what I did,'" because I knew that this would ruin their relationship and their life.

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[info]shelostcontro1 3rd-Jan-2012 12:35 am (UTC)
OOOOO relationship post please
[info]alacrities 3rd-Jan-2012 12:35 am (UTC)
nope.
[info]hellomeru 3rd-Jan-2012 12:37 am (UTC)
here go hell come . gif
[info]retromaury 3rd-Jan-2012 12:37 am (UTC)
Shes such a moron i cannot stand her on the show
[info]superdogbiter 3rd-Jan-2012 12:37 am (UTC)
shhhhhh
and since i'm asexual i'll never know what that feel likes?
[info]davetvs 3rd-Jan-2012 12:43 am (UTC)
lol
[info]shelostcontro1 3rd-Jan-2012 12:47 am (UTC)
why do you think you're asexual?
[info]superdogbiter 3rd-Jan-2012 12:48 am (UTC)
because the thought of having sex creeps me out
[info]simontheduck 3rd-Jan-2012 03:08 am (UTC)
I don't get how this is a valid question. Nobody would walk up to someone else and be like, "Why do you think you're straight?" or "Why do you think you're gay?" It's not really fair.

Just...as an asexual (who has tried sex many times with both genders and has never changed sexual orientation) I just can't understand why someone would ask this.
[info]hershelwalker 3rd-Jan-2012 01:03 am (UTC)
you don't want to have relationships at all or you just don't want to have sex with people?
[info]arrowtoes 3rd-Jan-2012 05:19 am (UTC)
I love how whenever I've seen you say you're asexual on here somebody always pops up to question you or tell you you're wrong. fuck 'em.
[info]quote_me_once 3rd-Jan-2012 12:37 am (UTC)
it may also potentially destroy a relationship based on trust.
[info]drammh 3rd-Jan-2012 12:37 am (UTC)
if my wife ever cheats on me. I'll kill her. KILL. i'M NOT MARRIED THOUGH
[info]therealycats 3rd-Jan-2012 12:46 am (UTC)
Uh.
[info]shelostcontro1 3rd-Jan-2012 12:47 am (UTC)
O_o
[info]guyhaines 3rd-Jan-2012 12:49 am (UTC)
...
[info]fairytwist 3rd-Jan-2012 12:51 am (UTC)
Gurl....
[info]drammh 3rd-Jan-2012 12:53 am (UTC)
*dude
[info]billiejeanrip 3rd-Jan-2012 12:54 am (UTC)
0__________0
[info]ch33rylips 3rd-Jan-2012 12:56 am (UTC)
Lolol I get what you're saying idk why everyone is freaking out on you.
[info]moontear 3rd-Jan-2012 01:04 am (UTC)
I feel you, bb. Got plenty of friends who have said the same about potential spouses.
[info]derrobitch 3rd-Jan-2012 01:12 am (UTC)
o it's you..............

[info]ohkimosabe 3rd-Jan-2012 01:29 am (UTC)
Why wouldn't you just break up w/ her?
[info]kimberwyn 3rd-Jan-2012 01:58 am (UTC)
so if you cheat on her she can kill you too right
[info]in_styles 3rd-Jan-2012 05:41 am (UTC)
[info]yinker 3rd-Jan-2012 10:09 am (UTC)
uhh, i guess I'm the only one that laughed at this comment. oops (I assumed the person was jk-ok!)
[info]dusttogold 3rd-Jan-2012 12:37 am (UTC)
i have no sympathy for cheaters

ive been cheated on (and left for another woman, for what it's worth) and it's so dirty.
[info]genbu_no_miko24 3rd-Jan-2012 12:44 am (UTC)
ia with you. I saw that happen to some close friends of me.

not cool
[info]pleasdtomeetme 3rd-Jan-2012 12:54 am (UTC)
Same, I've been cheated on multiple times. And somehow it's always "my" fault. One time this guy went off with a stripper while I was in the hospital.
[info]lauracoy 3rd-Jan-2012 02:34 am (UTC)
Bastard, I hope she gave him herpes.
[info]rheya_kelvin 3rd-Jan-2012 12:59 am (UTC)
Were you cheated on with the woman he/she left you for?
Not saying that it's right, but sometimes relationships overlap. Whether it's plain cowardice or fear of hurting someone you once loved, some people don't make clean cuts.
Not that it would make the one left behind feel any better but that's not the same thing as randomly whoring around, imo.

That said, I realize that from your point of view it would make no difference whatsoever.
[info]moontear 3rd-Jan-2012 01:08 am (UTC)
IA, and once a cheater, always a cheater. Period.
[info]miss_kate18 3rd-Jan-2012 09:24 am (UTC)
Me too. I'd never forgive a cheater.
[info]ljubavirakija 3rd-Jan-2012 12:38 am (UTC)
I've seen circumstances with people that I know are in love with their spouse and they made one mistake

Obv Mauricio.
[info]zanzou_chan 3rd-Jan-2012 12:58 am (UTC)
lol mfte
[info]derrobitch 3rd-Jan-2012 01:15 am (UTC)
LOL i've heard on the grapevine (aka this means nothing) that he has a love child in las vegas
[info]lauracoy 3rd-Jan-2012 02:35 am (UTC)
Not surprised though, as ~amazing~ as he seems, it's too amazing, you know?
[info]rissa_rose 3rd-Jan-2012 01:37 am (UTC)
I immediately thought the same thing.
[info]chantemarissa 3rd-Jan-2012 01:41 am (UTC)
i doubt it tbh. more like her first husband
[info]gogeta1 3rd-Jan-2012 03:16 am (UTC)
ikr
[info]nicolesnitchie 3rd-Jan-2012 07:55 am (UTC)
mfte. i doubt it was just one imo.
[info]x_myheart_ 3rd-Jan-2012 12:38 am (UTC)
ugh, hell no.
[info]ch33rylips 3rd-Jan-2012 12:38 am (UTC)
[info]hellomeru 3rd-Jan-2012 12:41 am (UTC)
lol the worst

[info]brown_suger 3rd-Jan-2012 12:44 am (UTC)
JASON DERULOOOO
[info]ch33rylips 3rd-Jan-2012 12:46 am (UTC)
WTF is this shit?!!! at least Usher had the decency to give me a couple of good songs with his fuckery.
[info]wits 3rd-Jan-2012 12:51 am (UTC)
BELUGA HEIGHTS
[info]carazon 3rd-Jan-2012 01:12 am (UTC)
DESTROYED IMOGEN'S SONG.
[info]a_way_of_sin 3rd-Jan-2012 12:52 am (UTC)
[info]_underwhelmed 3rd-Jan-2012 01:00 am (UTC)
part 2 is some of my fave vocals ever :')
[info]masterofmystery 3rd-Jan-2012 12:39 am (UTC)
what rule book is this idiot reading

makes me wonder how many 'secrets' her husband may be keeping from her
[info]nicholasdee 3rd-Jan-2012 12:59 am (UTC)
big kathy's rule book

her mom was a piece of work, they go into it a bit in this article on paris hilton's mom (kyle's sister)

http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/features/2007/11/celebparents200711

[info]_chae 3rd-Jan-2012 12:39 am (UTC)
wasn't there a blind that mauricio cheated on her, or that they had an open marriage?

either way can't stand her this season.
[info]nicknolteshair 3rd-Jan-2012 12:39 am (UTC)
I had a friend that felt that way.

She felt it was SELFISH to tell someone and hurt them, if it was a one time event.

She got the side eye, for real
[info]lanuitdete 3rd-Jan-2012 12:41 am (UTC)
like cheating isn't a selfish thing to do, ha
[info]wits 3rd-Jan-2012 12:53 am (UTC)
i've definitely gotten in debates with people over this. they said the same thing, that if you cheat on someone once and you know it will never happen again, it's ~selfish to tell them because you're only going to hurt them and you're only doing it to make yourself feel better.

bullshit imo
[info]moontear 3rd-Jan-2012 01:20 am (UTC)
How can you KNOW it will never happen again, though. If you justify it once, you'll be able to justify it to yourself again in the future. SMH at the people in this world.
[info]prophecy_grl 3rd-Jan-2012 02:57 am (UTC)
I actually agree with that, but only with the condition that you break it off with them. If you're unable to stay faithful then you don't really want to be with them, or at least not enough to be only with them, so either way you should break up. As long as you break up with them and don't play stupid games there's no reason to add insult to injury by telling them something that would only hurt them more.

But if you don't tell them AND stay with them then you're an asshole tbh.
[info]browniecakemix 3rd-Jan-2012 01:27 am (UTC)
No, I agree to some extent. If you feel real remorse and know it's never going to happen again, telling them is tantamount to putting the onus on them--you get some degree of relief and they have to deal with the pain.

Then again, you also don't deserve their trust and under those circumstances they wouldn't know not to trust you anymore, so idk.
[info]a_klutz 3rd-Jan-2012 02:31 am (UTC)
Unpopular opinion but if telling the other person will do more harm than good, I think it's better to keep quiet IF it is a one-time thing AND you have no intention on carrying out any kind of affair/leaving your SO for a new person.

But that depends on the person who has been cheated on because some people would literally be able to move on from it whilst others would need to know.
[info]isntdaveone 3rd-Jan-2012 12:39 am (UTC)
i wonder who she cheated with.
[info]typo21 3rd-Jan-2012 12:40 am (UTC)
Faye Resnick.
[info]therealycats 3rd-Jan-2012 12:44 am (UTC)
*The Morally Corruptâ„¢
[info]mortoeroe 3rd-Jan-2012 12:40 am (UTC)
she didn't cheat, it was probably mauricio who cheated. hopefully with camille.
[info]spittingstars 3rd-Jan-2012 12:58 am (UTC)
Taylor.
[info]chantemarissa 3rd-Jan-2012 01:42 am (UTC)
mte. her first husband lbr
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