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8:51 am - 08/03/2011

SISTER,SISTER Star Wants Women To Consider Interracial Dating




Tamera Mowry walked down the aisle for the first time this past May when she married her longtime boyfriend, Fox News Correspondent, Adam Housley. Tamera was the beaming bride with her twin sister Tia by her side as they celebrated her big day. Tamera sat down with Essence Magazine to discuss her married life, being a good wife and the persistent question about her interracial marriage.


On the interracial question:

Well, I always find these questions so interesting, because I’m a product of an interracial marriage — and I never really grew up seeing color. I honestly realized that my dad was White when someone told me in middle school. They’re like, “Oh your dad’s White?” I’m like, “Oh, my gosh, he really is White.” I knew what race was, but it didn’t matter to me. Yes we are an interracial couple. The thing is we do still deal with that. People always question that. If anything, it hurts, but we do have more people supporting us then making stupid comments. We kind of just ignore it and focus on the positive. Love is love and a lot of times people might be in the situation they’re in because they put barriers up. Like some people only want to date a model, or an actor, or an athlete. You’re only limiting yourself. Open up to what’s out there because God made us all.



On what it means to be a good wife:

My mom was such an amazing example. She was a mom, wife, and a career woman. I just want to be there for my husband. I don’t ever want him to think that he’s not getting everything at home — love, attention, encouragement, a meal. I just want him to feel the best he feels at home. I think that’s what a good wife is. Someone who is very attentive to her husband.




Tamera and Tia will appear in a Style Network special, “Tia & Tamera” dishing on their wedding and Tia’s pregnancy, airing August 8th.

Would you consider Tamera’s advice and date outside of your race?  Have you done so already?


***what does him working at Fox have to do with their interracial marriage?  imo if you are going to hate on Fox, u best hate on CNN, MSNBC, and the rest of them.  Not a fan of cable news tbh....



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wishingheart 3rd-Aug-2011 06:53 pm (UTC)
i'm in the south and have lived in 4 southern states and NEVER heard this lol. guess it depends on the town?
danne_gerous 3rd-Aug-2011 07:00 pm (UTC)
Maybe it's an Arkansas thing? Lol, unless you've lived here too.

I've mostly heard it from older people and preached in churches, OM7H. Though I did have some classmates who repeated it after a pastor said it so...
wishingheart 3rd-Aug-2011 07:10 pm (UTC)
no, no. i think you might be right about arkansas. i seriously don't mean to offend, but arkansas is one of those states i don't usually count in the "real" south for some reason lol. i've lived in mississippi/kentucky/north carolina and florida (i still think its pretty damn southern after living there for 15 yrs!) but i've also always lived in the largest cities in those states so racism probably wouldn't be as prominent. i'm not sure what the population is like in arkansas, but NC is like 40% black so you can't easily survive as a racist here lol. i'm sure my kentuckian papaw would die if i married a black guy though so even though they don't say it out loud, i'm sure the old folks still think it!
danne_gerous 3rd-Aug-2011 07:16 pm (UTC)
Arkansas is 77% white. And we don't have anything here that could be confused with a 'big city', lol. And according to the US Census website, of the 308 million people in America, only 2 million reside in Arkansas. Not a booming metropolis.

And no offense taken. I will be on the first bus out of here, once I can afford it.
wishingheart 3rd-Aug-2011 07:37 pm (UTC)
haha, i just didn't want to offend because there is a chick in my grad program that is from arkansas who RAGED on me when i told her i didn't really think about arkansas when i though of the south and she's constantly raving on about kentucky being mid-western and arkansas is the best etc! and holy crap, i never realized arkansas had such a small population! well, i've moved around a lot and i love the big cities of the south. if you need a recommendation, i say go for charlotte or atlanta! the north is just way way too cold for me. i was born in minnesota, but even living in KY has been way way way too cold for me to handle :( good luck with the funds!
nothingcleva89 5th-Aug-2011 04:14 pm (UTC)
I'm from Louisiana and attended a private Christian school in Monroe. I've heard it. Which is sucked because my family was, for a long time, the only black family at that school.

Sadly, it was the reason I didn't go to our Junior/Senior Banquet (in lieu of prom because dancing is a sin). I asked a guy I had known for years, his family knew me, and he said he would go, but then had to cancel two days later because he was "going out of town". He didn't, his parents just told him he couldn't take me.

I've got stories, but I'm just going to share the one for now because I'm writing a few humorous commentaries about my life and I want to sell them like a black female David Sedaris.
danne_gerous 5th-Aug-2011 06:55 pm (UTC)
I will read the shit out of your book, bb.

And that really fucking sucks. I'm sorry they treated you that way. May you immortalize them in the pages of your bestseller in a not-so-flattering light.
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