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8:51 am - 08/03/2011

SISTER,SISTER Star Wants Women To Consider Interracial Dating




Tamera Mowry walked down the aisle for the first time this past May when she married her longtime boyfriend, Fox News Correspondent, Adam Housley. Tamera was the beaming bride with her twin sister Tia by her side as they celebrated her big day. Tamera sat down with Essence Magazine to discuss her married life, being a good wife and the persistent question about her interracial marriage.


On the interracial question:

Well, I always find these questions so interesting, because I’m a product of an interracial marriage — and I never really grew up seeing color. I honestly realized that my dad was White when someone told me in middle school. They’re like, “Oh your dad’s White?” I’m like, “Oh, my gosh, he really is White.” I knew what race was, but it didn’t matter to me. Yes we are an interracial couple. The thing is we do still deal with that. People always question that. If anything, it hurts, but we do have more people supporting us then making stupid comments. We kind of just ignore it and focus on the positive. Love is love and a lot of times people might be in the situation they’re in because they put barriers up. Like some people only want to date a model, or an actor, or an athlete. You’re only limiting yourself. Open up to what’s out there because God made us all.



On what it means to be a good wife:

My mom was such an amazing example. She was a mom, wife, and a career woman. I just want to be there for my husband. I don’t ever want him to think that he’s not getting everything at home — love, attention, encouragement, a meal. I just want him to feel the best he feels at home. I think that’s what a good wife is. Someone who is very attentive to her husband.




Tamera and Tia will appear in a Style Network special, “Tia & Tamera” dishing on their wedding and Tia’s pregnancy, airing August 8th.

Would you consider Tamera’s advice and date outside of your race?  Have you done so already?


***what does him working at Fox have to do with their interracial marriage?  imo if you are going to hate on Fox, u best hate on CNN, MSNBC, and the rest of them.  Not a fan of cable news tbh....



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edwinaxmonsoon 3rd-Aug-2011 04:44 pm (UTC)
the whole 'I don't see race, I see people' line is so played out it's stupid. Comments like I didn't realize my dad was white are ridiculous.
awkwardmumbles 3rd-Aug-2011 04:46 pm (UTC)
why is it ridiculous? if her parents arent going around saying im white an your dad is black then its not really something they would think about at a young age
savemeris 3rd-Aug-2011 04:47 pm (UTC)
It's kinda true though.

I mean...I dunno. To me, my mum doesn't look Asian. She's just my mum. My aunt, on the other hand? Asian.
emesieremonde 3rd-Aug-2011 04:48 pm (UTC)
I didn't notice my mom was SIGNIFICANTLY lighter skinned (lighter than Rihanna) than the rest of my family until another black person brought it up.

Things like that happen all the time once you start going to school. As a little kid other kids point things out to you. Clearly that black child was from a household where skin shade had been discussed regularly and mine hadn't.
awkwardmumbles 3rd-Aug-2011 04:50 pm (UTC)
when i was in 2nd grade we brought out parents to school and someone asked why my mom was white (inner city school) and i started BAWLING like hysterical
fakevoices 3rd-Aug-2011 05:16 pm (UTC)
i didn't know i was black until i moved to north america tbh
quote_me_once 3rd-Aug-2011 04:49 pm (UTC)
it could happen. i didn't realize i was ~black~ until i moved to an all-white town. like, i knew, but i never really saw a difference because i was young and came from a place of mixed cultures (black, hispanic, asians here and there). when i got to the new town people pointed it out all the damn time so that's how i really noticed i was different.
wildfawn 3rd-Aug-2011 04:57 pm (UTC)
it does sound ridiculous, but honestly at a young age it's not a thing you stop and think about. that's what she meant.
minyquai 3rd-Aug-2011 05:00 pm (UTC)
only 22 years into my life i realized my mom had an accent

sugary_placenta 3rd-Aug-2011 05:10 pm (UTC)
LMAO ME TOO!

I got older and I was like "WTF When did she get an accent?"
xstellargrl 3rd-Aug-2011 05:16 pm (UTC)
Heh, well then I'm completely stupid I was the same until around junior high as well.

I didn't realize my best friends were Asian, and Cuban until people started commenting on it.
I just saw them as my friends.
nikim 3rd-Aug-2011 05:56 pm (UTC)
Idk, i'm significantly darker than my brother and sister but I ha'nt paid it any attention until a color struck lady at church pointed it out. I was about 10 when she asked my mom what it was like having a dark skinned child and my mom was like 'WTF are you talking about?' It was weird and my mom stopped being friends with her that day.
soap_laa 3rd-Aug-2011 06:13 pm (UTC)
I never really paid much attention to that around my house either, until kids in school (and their parents) asked me if I was adopted when I was 5.
My dad was Polish and English. My mom is full blooded Syrian. I have always been really pale. So, at a young age, I didn't quite get the concept of mom and dad being from different continents. The older I got, it just wasn't a big deal to me to know people in mixed relationships.
la_sikka 3rd-Aug-2011 07:25 pm (UTC)
That's not what she is saying though. She's saying as a kid she had no awareness of her parents being different races.

That is not the same thing as people being like, "Oh, I don't see Race, I'm so open minded and freethinking..."
misscrystal 3rd-Aug-2011 07:27 pm (UTC)
I would believe it if she'd said kindergarten or elementary school. Kids can be blind to that stuff, but at middle-school age?
Bitchnowyouknowthatsalie.gif She damn sure would have known by then.
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