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12:26 am - 07/24/2011

Ben Roethlisberger Gets Married

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Ben Roethlisberger got another ring on Saturday.

The Steelers' Super Bowl-winning quarterback married New Castle native Ashley Harlan in a private church ceremony in Ohio Township, then celebrated into the night at a reception Downtown.


"Happy that my dude found love," Steelers receiver Emmanuel Sanders posted on Twitter.

Roethlisberger, 29, and Harlan, 26, tied the knot in a ceremony at Christ Church at Grove Farm, then received a police escort to the David L. Lawrence Convention Center for the reception.

Roethlisberger's friend Jaime Cooper served as best man. Harlan's friend Erin Telford was maid of honor, and her sister-in-law Susan Harlan served as matron of honor.

In all, there were 20 members of the bridal party — including Steelers players Willie Colon and Brett Keisel and Roethlisberger's agent, Ryan Tollner — and one flower girl.

The Steelers' Trai Essex, Ramon Foster, Chris Kemoeatu, Doug Legursky, Maurkice Pouncey and Max Starks were ushers. So were former Steelers running back and ESPN analyst Merril Hoge and state police Trooper Edward Joyner, who has worked as a personal assistant for Roethlisberger.

The bride wore a Monique Lhuillier strapless, ivory silk gown. The bridesmaids wore Jim Hjelm strapless gowns in slate gray and carried clusters of blush pink roses.

Pittsburgh Mayor Luke Ravenstahl, U.S. Ambassador to Ireland Dan Rooney and Penguins co-owner Mario Lemieux were among the VIPs. Even WWE professional wrestler Triple H was seen entering the convention center.

The couple went to great lengths to keep details of their wedding plans secret — convention center brass posted fliers indicating a movie shoot was taking place from July 18-24 — and their wedding day was no different.

Ohio Township police blocked access to the church for hours before the ceremony, and Pittsburgh police and a private security firm controlled access to the convention center, shutting down 10th Street between Fort Duquesne Boulevard and Penn Avenue for much of the day.

The Roethlisbergers, who could not be reached for comment and did not issue a statement, required guests to present a pink sheet of paper to gain access to the church and reception. Once at the convention center, guests received a gray rubber bracelet and another pink slip regarding the event.

Bomb-sniffing dogs swept the convention center earlier in the day. Lt. Jack Kearney of the Allegheny County Sheriff's Office, who handles security for the Steelers, was at the reception.

Police and private security officers were scheduled to remain at the convention center until 2 a.m., police said.

The service in the nondenominational church lasted less than an hour. Harlan walked down the aisle with her father, Dave, to "Threads of Love."

Music included "Redeemer" by Nicole C. Mullen, "Canon in D" by Johann Pachelbel, "Allegro Maestoso" from "Water Music" by George F. Handel and "Joyful, Joyful We Adore Thee" by Ludwig van Beethoven.

Two tall candles on the altar were lit in memory of family members and loved ones of the bride and groom.

The couple took photographs at the church for about an hour before leaving for the reception with the wedding party in two limousine buses.

Planners expected as many as 650 guests at the reception, and a steady flow of black limousines and sport utility vehicles arrived shortly after the church service.

Cocktails were served on the second floor about two hours before dinner and dancing. The party then moved upstairs to The Spirit of Pittsburgh Ballroom on the third floor.

Those involved said Roethlisberger and Harlan spared no expense.

The ballroom was decorated with scores of roses — mostly different shades of pink, along with white and cream — from Hepatica Florist in Regent Square. Table arrangements also included orchids and hydrangeas.

Nearly 10,000 roses — hot pink, light pink and a softer pink — covered a 5- by 40-foot wall that was used as a backdrop for photographs.

A grand piano stood on a stage beneath a giant scripted logo of the couple's initials: A and B on either side of a large R.

Roethlisberger and Harlan chose "God Gave Me You" for their first dance, and the song was performed live by the original artist, Dave Barnes. Harlan danced with her father to "I'll Always Be Your Baby" by Natalie Grant.

Premier Foliage & Flowering in East Liberty provided 100 palm trees, 150 ferns, 100 ivy at the church and convention center, said owner Jeff Ballina. It took more than three days to arrange the foliage, he said.

"This was certainly a wonderful event and the most elegant event that I have ever been involved with," Ballina said. "When we were all finished, you couldn't tell it was the convention center. It was just so beautiful. The ballroom was gorgeous. It went together so well because all of the vendors worked so well together."


Guests, seated at about 65 tables of 10, chose between roasted beef tenderloin with cabernet demi-glace or pan-seared halibut with grilled lemons for dinner, provided by The Common Plea Restaurant and Catering, Downtown.

Staff handed out Moet champagne for the toasts, and Chateau St. Jean chardonnay and cabernet was served with dinner.

The couple decided on a six-tier wedding cake from Vanilla Pastry Studio in East Liberty.

The only sign of Steeler Nation came outside the church.

Friends and family of Bill and Margie Zierenberg gathered outside their home down the street from Christ Church in hopes of catching a glimpse of the newly married couple, but it never came.

The Zierenbergs' granddaughter Lizzy Weisner, 12, who was visiting from Dallas, and her cousin Callie Downing, 14, of Ben Avon joined other cousins to make a sign that read, "Best wishes, Ben and Ashley."

"When I first got up, I didn't think it was a good idea," Downing said. "But once everyone got here, I thought it was a good idea."

Ohio Township police Cpl. Donald Manz said there were no complaints or arrests at or near the wedding ceremony.

"With all the things (Roethlisberger) has gone through in the past year," Manz said, "we anticipated some kind of advocacy group or something, but it was quiet. Maybe the heat kept them away."


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flashin 24th-Jul-2011 04:47 am (UTC)
He's a disgusting, gross human being. So congratulations to her.
swissbeauty23 24th-Jul-2011 04:59 am (UTC)
lol
tiddlywinks103 24th-Jul-2011 05:48 am (UTC)
ikr?
drownanddive 24th-Jul-2011 11:02 am (UTC)
MTE
ice489 24th-Jul-2011 02:01 pm (UTC)
Perfect first comment.
chihaya19 24th-Jul-2011 05:19 am (UTC)
lol i have an ex-bff who loves chipotle and every time i go by one i give it the fucking stinkeye /csb
nene718 24th-Jul-2011 05:48 am (UTC)
you would've hated him either way
la_bellaviidaxo 24th-Jul-2011 04:50 am (UTC)
He is so ugly.
applesforapril 24th-Jul-2011 04:50 am (UTC)
i can't believe someone would actually marry him. now i ain't saying she a gold-digger...
boltonlove 24th-Jul-2011 05:00 am (UTC)
maybe she's one of those people who think girls ask to be raped if they're wearing skirts.. or maybe she doesn't think he did it.. idk.
swissbeauty23 24th-Jul-2011 05:02 am (UTC)
Their wedding, from the pictures, looks like it was at a discount Marriott.
camillesaens 24th-Jul-2011 07:32 am (UTC)
lolol ikr what is that wedding dress fucking hideous
pull_my_daisyyy 24th-Jul-2011 02:50 pm (UTC)
Seriously. And is he wearing a fucking t-shirt at the reception?!?
politicking 24th-Jul-2011 06:28 pm (UTC)
I'm gonna piss myself at work. A+
_erin_go_bragh 24th-Jul-2011 04:52 am (UTC)
After all the shit he did and the Rooneys kept him, so I predicted he'd be settled before the year was over. They really value family values and his image? Not so good.
l27freakshow 24th-Jul-2011 05:30 am (UTC)
So true. I mean, it was strange to me that they got rid of Santonio Holmes because of his legal troubles, but kept Ben. I have a feeling Roethlisberger did it for his image. Usually the Steeler's clean image is pretty important to the Rooney family. I wonder if anything will result from Hines Ward's DUI incident. I haven't really kept up with that.
rawr_santi 24th-Jul-2011 05:36 am (UTC)
Hines is about ready to retire tbh. If the Steelers has won the superbowl this year I really think he would have.
bluesforgotten 24th-Jul-2011 05:49 am (UTC)
Yeah, I'm surprised he's still around to be honest. I guess he'll stick around since they made it so far. Ward will be gone soon, so maybe a complete overhaul in a couple years?

I live next door to the Rooney's daughter/granddaughter/however you want to think about it haha. She goes to my university, she's friends with some of my friends but I barely know her. She's always been super nice though. It's crazy how she'll just get picked up by a car service and taken to the airport to go to like, Florida for the weekend. There's some wealthy people at my school, but you don't see that every day. Not holding it against her at all, I wish I could travel like she does. /csb.
xcollsangelx 24th-Jul-2011 08:05 am (UTC)
Please, James Harrison assaulted his girlfriend and the Rooneys turned a blind eye.

aujourlejour 24th-Jul-2011 04:52 am (UTC)
this is why you should always google someone's name before you get married
boltonlove 24th-Jul-2011 04:56 am (UTC)
how did she not know? i don't even pay attention to sports and i know who this asshole is.
aujourlejour 24th-Jul-2011 04:59 am (UTC)
Im just being facetious. Im sure she knows.
crazyventures 24th-Jul-2011 05:00 am (UTC)
There's no way she doesn't know

It's all about the $$$
la_bellaviidaxo 24th-Jul-2011 05:01 am (UTC)
oh, she knows.
getbacknow 24th-Jul-2011 05:40 am (UTC)
did you happen to hear a "whoosh" sound when you read that comment, jw
___heyvanity 24th-Jul-2011 06:02 am (UTC)
A lot of women honestly believe they have "changed" a man. Or she decides not to believe any of what he's been accused of.
crazyventures 24th-Jul-2011 04:52 am (UTC)
Tacky dress for a wedding to a disgusting excuse for a human being.
swissbeauty23 24th-Jul-2011 05:02 am (UTC)
the whole wedding looks tacky imo
celtic_thistle 24th-Jul-2011 05:30 am (UTC)
Yup, wedding dress is ugly and her tan is awful.
howawful 24th-Jul-2011 04:54 am (UTC)
ummmm WTF???
levenah 24th-Jul-2011 04:54 am (UTC)
What is that dress....


Never again will I plan a wedding. Mine was ENOUGH!
l27freakshow 24th-Jul-2011 05:32 am (UTC)
Same. Although, I think it's less stressful when it's not your own wedding. I hated planning mine but I'm usually fine helping my friends with theirs.
levenah 24th-Jul-2011 05:35 am (UTC)
yeah it must be.

I had a panic attack the night before mine because I was so stressed out. The day after the wedding, I felt like everything had been lifted on me!

So weird that it was just over a month and a half ago. Went by so fast!
isntdaveone 24th-Jul-2011 04:54 am (UTC)
wtf, doesnt she know what he does to women!?
scarletfruit 24th-Jul-2011 04:55 am (UTC)
rlmoonyk 24th-Jul-2011 04:55 am (UTC)
what a gross person
he's so hideous
chihaya19 24th-Jul-2011 05:20 am (UTC)
ia but YOUR ICON HOWEVER.......!!!
itseasiersaid 24th-Jul-2011 04:56 am (UTC)
When the person youre marrying anticipates advocacy groups coming to protest at your wedding, its probably a bad choice.
homicidalslayer Re: Question24th-Jul-2011 04:59 am (UTC)
Nope, settled out of court or lack of evidence or some similar BS
imsodeep Re: Question24th-Jul-2011 05:05 am (UTC)
lol of course not.
celtic_thistle Re: Question24th-Jul-2011 05:30 am (UTC)
No, he's rich and white and we live in a rape culture.
bluesforgotten Re: Question24th-Jul-2011 05:51 am (UTC)
no, lack of evidence because iirc they didn't report the cases right away? but i think he's given them money to keep the stories quiet.
rhyana Re: Question24th-Jul-2011 06:11 pm (UTC)
One reported a year later. The second reported either the next day or the day after.
homicidalslayer 24th-Jul-2011 04:56 am (UTC)
On behalf of the city of Pittsburgh, I BEG YOU, BEN STICK TO YOUR FUCKING VOWS.


Probably a shotgun wedding though, tbh.



My friend cleans the pool at his house here in Pittsburgh. Says the place is fugly but his dogs [actual canines] are ridiculously awesome.
boltonlove 24th-Jul-2011 04:59 am (UTC)
pittsburg cares if he sticks to his vows? cheating is douchey, but all i hope is that this asshole doesn't sexually assault another women.
imsodeep 24th-Jul-2011 05:16 am (UTC)
seriously. on behalf of human kind we beg you to not rape people...
homicidalslayer 24th-Jul-2011 05:21 am (UTC)
My point was that PittsburgH ('Pittsburg' is in California. This is Pennsylvania) doesn't need any more of his dickishness being associated with our city, which has gone through enough shit these past few years (esp. with that G-20 bullshit) that we don't need anyone else provoking the absolutely ridiculous number of haters trying to defame one of the few things we have left to cling to as a source of pride (Our stalwart devotion to our teams).

Also, though Ben is Anglican, Pittsburgh is a very Catholic city populated mostly by old people who, yes, do value fidelity and the sanctity of marriage. (Be it same sex or opposite sex, promises before God are promises before God)

And lastly, I had assumed that this would have been implied, but by "stick to your vows" I meant "live out the rest of your undoubtedly disgustingly self-important existence having only mutually consensual couplings with your blond piece of what is most likely at least 50% silicone ass"
nicolesnitchie 24th-Jul-2011 02:45 pm (UTC)
"i beg you ben stick to your fucking vows"

lololololololol yeah right
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