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2:52 pm - 06/20/2011

Lady Gaga Understands If the Gay Community Doesn't 'Want to Be Defined by Me'




As the self-described "Mother Monster," Lady Gaga has become one of the most public and vocal voices in the fight for equality within the gay community. But, as she found out late into her alarmingly short post-MuchMusic Video Awards backstage Q&A, not all of her "monsters" are so pleased about her place among the movement's public leaders.


"I would say that I am just part of the voice." A somewhat taken aback Gaga told a packed press room after agreeing to field a question from the "gay press" at fab magazine regarding her "taking over gay rights." "I've always had gay friends and I have been very involved in the gay community since I was young and I feel a moral obligation to defend my fanbase and make the world a better place."

"If some people don't want to be defined by me as their mother, that's wonderful," she continued. "I don't view it in that way. I view it as being part of the generation, not as the leader."

Celebrating her duel award wins -- for International Video of the Year for 'Judas' and UR Fave International Video for 'Born This Way' -- the fashion-obsessed Gaga also revealed that she hopes to start her own clothing line sometime in the future.

"I would love to have a line, quite honestly I would love to have a line where I could stop making music for a while, maybe a year, and really devote my time to it," the Versace-sporting fashion icon told reporters. "But that's not going to happen for a while because I'm really obsessed with songwriting right now -- I'm already writing new music."

Sadly, neither the recent death of E Street Band saxophonist Clarence "Big Man" Clemons, her friend and collaborator, nor the recent Twitter battle between her fans and fellow MMVA performers the Black Keys were raised during the Q&A, though the New York-based singer did manage to discuss her apartment, which she has lived in since her pre-fame days.

"I wrote so much music in that place, I got so inspired living there. Part of me is terrified that if I leave, the courage and feeling of survival in New York City will leave my spirit," she deadpanned. "[My apartment] grounds me. It's nice to get into the bathtub and there's no hot water. I'm like, 'F---, that's real life.'"


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superdogbiter 20th-Jun-2011 06:57 pm (UTC)
ONLY FREDDIE MERCURY CAN DEFINE THIS WITH HIS SONGS
colossusx 20th-Jun-2011 07:04 pm (UTC)
he is dead
violue 20th-Jun-2011 07:05 pm (UTC)
woah, woah, when did this happen?
grrface325 20th-Jun-2011 06:58 pm (UTC)
well how modest of you gaga
druggybridge 20th-Jun-2011 06:58 pm (UTC)
Well yeah, she's straight. She can't just claim to be the spokesperson for the gay community when she's not gay herself.
crystalzelda 20th-Jun-2011 07:00 pm (UTC)
She's bisexual.

In b4 the ~she was just lying for attention~ comments.
paper_planez 20th-Jun-2011 07:12 pm (UTC)
is it really hard to believe that she would lie about it for attention though? considering she is the biggest attention whore ever
palsmarties 21st-Jun-2011 02:45 am (UTC)
Yes, but didn't she say she is also hetero-romantic only?
hpxstac 20th-Jun-2011 07:01 pm (UTC)
I thought she identified herself as bi?
notthatinnocent 20th-Jun-2011 07:12 pm (UTC)
I think she claims to be bisexual. But I have yet to hear of her actually having a relationship with a woman.
sweet_honesty 20th-Jun-2011 07:32 pm (UTC)
She's actually Bi. Nice try.
millioned 21st-Jun-2011 05:36 pm (UTC)
Lol ohmyyy, smh @ you.
kewlkidv 20th-Jun-2011 06:59 pm (UTC)
lol at her teal pubic hair
freebrook 22nd-Jun-2011 03:10 am (UTC)
omg
_andrea 20th-Jun-2011 06:59 pm (UTC)
shes been pissing me off lately. just stick to making music.
cab 20th-Jun-2011 07:00 pm (UTC)
wut how? when all she has been doing is performances...
_andrea 20th-Jun-2011 07:02 pm (UTC)
i feel that since shes become some 'motivational speaker', always commenting on everything, her music is suffering.

i find this last album is not as remotely good as her first couple.
super_creeps 20th-Jun-2011 07:02 pm (UTC)
Agreed. When she was making fun, catchy dance songs I was all over it. But she's been coming off as so self righteous lately.
bamboobanga2 20th-Jun-2011 07:02 pm (UTC)
oh yeah i'm sure that'll go over well with her manager, press agents, interviewers, fans, studio execs etc...

dumb comment is dumb. if you don't care for what she says, don't read/listen.
robotpotatoes 20th-Jun-2011 07:00 pm (UTC)
inspirational. not shaving anything for two weeks so i can dye them in fruity colors<3
super_creeps 20th-Jun-2011 07:00 pm (UTC)
I love how the add in the side panel is for Christian Mingle
crystalzelda 20th-Jun-2011 07:02 pm (UTC)
I'm pretty sure she's not the one who came up with the term. But yeah lol, I'm not calling a 25 year old pop star, no matter how much I heart her, "mother".

Edited at 2011-06-20 07:03 pm (UTC)
tiki876 20th-Jun-2011 07:32 pm (UTC)
Whenever she identifies herself as mother to her fans it makes me think of when Madonna kept calling herself mother to her dancers. Idk, it could just be a coincidence but the way she says just reminds me of that.
venus_orbiting 21st-Jun-2011 04:59 am (UTC)
Seriously. Especially since I'm also 25. Noooo.
venus_orbiting 21st-Jun-2011 05:00 am (UTC)
(Not that I would if she were older, but still.)
foxface 20th-Jun-2011 07:03 pm (UTC)
k
shteved 20th-Jun-2011 07:03 pm (UTC)
her fans made the name "mother monster"

gurrl sit your ass down
bamboobanga2 20th-Jun-2011 07:05 pm (UTC)
lol she says something nice and you turn it into her being conceited. people have complained about her thinking she's the queen of gays, so when she tells you she knows she's not you just find something else to pick on. funny.
sadisticsidhe 20th-Jun-2011 07:08 pm (UTC)
Girl no agree, it's weird. That's one of the reasons the whole Born this Way video severely weirds me out.
americnxidiot 20th-Jun-2011 07:09 pm (UTC)
lol ia.
on_broadway36 20th-Jun-2011 07:12 pm (UTC)
lol IA. Although I do have friends who refer to her as Mother Monster and wished her Happy Mother's Day on Facebook this year.
quickcanal 20th-Jun-2011 07:12 pm (UTC)
lol ia
roxi9 20th-Jun-2011 07:13 pm (UTC)
ikr, she's ridiculous.
rivadavia 20th-Jun-2011 07:15 pm (UTC)
i'm with u boo
grande_latte 20th-Jun-2011 07:30 pm (UTC)
Ia
vag_breath 20th-Jun-2011 07:36 pm (UTC)
ikr its embarrassing
fostintowers 20th-Jun-2011 09:08 pm (UTC)
talk about some ego.
colossusx 20th-Jun-2011 07:03 pm (UTC)
i like her more than her music. especially all the filler on BTW.
soba_kasu 20th-Jun-2011 07:19 pm (UTC)
fashion of his love and the queen are the only filler bb
colossusx 20th-Jun-2011 07:35 pm (UTC)
fashion of his love is the best song

bye
xxxquothxxx 20th-Jun-2011 09:02 pm (UTC)
your icon is flaw free tbh.
esearcher 20th-Jun-2011 07:03 pm (UTC)
I don't get how she can be all "love yourself... born this way" when she's going around with fake-subdermal attachments to her face and body to make herself more angular, because she's unhappy with her less-than-angular face. Shouldn't she just be happy with the way she was born?
shteved 20th-Jun-2011 07:05 pm (UTC)
and we were all born naked, so everyone who wears clothes is what? The song is not about ones appearance but its about staying true to the person you were born as. Wether it be gay, str8, bi, trans et cetera.
phnix_daft_mode 20th-Jun-2011 07:11 pm (UTC)
The kooky hair colors, angular face prosthetics, etc are apart of her stage persona.

Born This Way maybe about loving yourself for who you are, but it doesn't really say "Don't ever change yourself, even though if it's really what you want". If that makes sense.
______glory 20th-Jun-2011 07:14 pm (UTC)
ur so literal
esearcher 20th-Jun-2011 07:29 pm (UTC)
I know, I am. Srsly, it's a problem in life for me.

But related to this, she's been giving interviews all over about how insecure she is about her looks, in one, she says she had been wearing the angular face thingies so her (then)bf would find her more attractive. I just don't get the timing of her mixed messages.
no_urges 20th-Jun-2011 07:31 pm (UTC)
LMAO those weren't about being "more angular."
yousexpot 20th-Jun-2011 08:55 pm (UTC)
the album is not about being the way that you were born, it's about being the person you want to be. geez.
hjalmartazar 20th-Jun-2011 09:12 pm (UTC)
are you talking about the things that look like chewed gum on her face?
i saw someone with a gaga icon and it looked like she had raisins or something on her face, i asked what it was but never got a respose.
queen_katpierce 20th-Jun-2011 07:03 pm (UTC)
I love her and the OP.
foxface 20th-Jun-2011 07:05 pm (UTC)
<33
cab 20th-Jun-2011 07:03 pm (UTC)
- I'm already writing new music.

yussssssssssss
bloody_hell 20th-Jun-2011 07:03 pm (UTC)
OP is so qt
foxface 20th-Jun-2011 07:04 pm (UTC)
no, you are imo
colossusx 20th-Jun-2011 07:04 pm (UTC)
she's ok
deirdreextreme 20th-Jun-2011 07:05 pm (UTC)
their mother. LMFAO
sadisticsidhe 20th-Jun-2011 07:06 pm (UTC)
"If some people don't want to be defined by me as their mother, that's wonderful,


The whole Mother Monster bit creeps me out really hard. She's a pop singer, not your parent. The fact that people want to be defined by having her as their mother is just really fucking bizarre to me.


/is gonna get shit from the gaga stans.
sadisticsidhe 20th-Jun-2011 07:07 pm (UTC)
btw this more directed at the fans and less at Gaga.
redsprings 20th-Jun-2011 07:08 pm (UTC)
Couldn't agree more tbh.
shteved 20th-Jun-2011 07:09 pm (UTC)
it's funny sometimes but im sure she is more of a parent than a lot of gay/bi/trans persons' parent.
colossusx 20th-Jun-2011 07:11 pm (UTC)
honey no
paper_planez 20th-Jun-2011 07:16 pm (UTC)
lol stop
roxi9 20th-Jun-2011 07:24 pm (UTC)
...lmao
vag_breath 20th-Jun-2011 07:36 pm (UTC)
lol w h a t
grislyvisage 20th-Jun-2011 07:56 pm (UTC)
AMEN. People telling you no are uneducated or fortunate enough to live in an accepting home.
LGBT youth are quickly becoming the majority in the homeless population.
bradentastic 20th-Jun-2011 07:09 pm (UTC)
its very weird... but then she's kind of like michael jackson in that she has these rabid fans who really feel like they know her and have a connection to her and she wants to prove to them that she understands. i think a lot of them are lonely.
phnix_daft_mode 20th-Jun-2011 07:12 pm (UTC)
It's weird but I take the whole "mother monster/little monster" thing with a grain of salt. I just consider her a big fan of her music *shrugs*
roxi9 20th-Jun-2011 07:15 pm (UTC)
lol a big part of her fans are psychos, what do u expect.
sunredskyblue 20th-Jun-2011 07:28 pm (UTC)
yeah it is. i'm a gaga fan but wouldn't call myself a little monster either. it's kind of lame lol.
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