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11:40 am - 06/15/2010

Facebook fuelling divorce, research claims



Facebook is being cited in almost one in five of online divorce petitions, lawyers have claimed.



The social networking site, which connects old friends and allows users to make new ones online, is being blamed for an increasing number of marital breakdowns.
Divorce lawyers claim the explosion in the popularity of websites such as Facebook and Bebo is tempting to people to cheat on their partners.


Suspicious spouses have also used the websites to find evidence of flirting and even affairs which have led to divorce. One law firm, which specialises in divorce, claimed almost one in five petitions they processed cited Facebook. Mark Keenan, Managing Director of Divorce-Online said: "I had heard from my staff that there were a lot of people saying they had found out things about their partners on Facebook and I decided to see how prevalent it was I was really surprised to see 20 per cent of all the petitions containing references to Facebook. "The most common reason seemed to be people having inappropriate sexual chats with people they were not supposed to."
Flirty emails and messages found on Facebook pages are increasingly being cited as evidence of unreasonable behaviour.

Computer firms have even cashed in by developing software allowing suspicious spouses to electronically spy on someone's online activities. One 35-year-old woman even discovered her husband was divorcing her via Facebook.
Conference organiser Emma Brady was distraught to read that her marriage was over when he updated his status on the site to read: "Neil Brady has ended his marriage to Emma Brady."


Last year a 28-year-old woman ended her marriage after discovering her husband had been having a virtual affair with someone in cyberspace he had never met.Amy Taylor 28, split from David Pollard after discovering he was sleeping with an escort in the game Second Life, a virtual world where people reinvent themselves.
Around 14 million Britons are believed to regularly use social networking sites to communicate with old friends or make new ones.

The popularity of the Friends Reunited website several years ago was also blamed for a surge in divorces as bored husbands and wives used it to contact old flames and first loves.
The UK’s divorce rate has fallen in recent years, but two in five marriages are still failing according the latest statistics.
Mr Keenan believes that the general divorce rate will rocket in 2010 with the recession taking the blame.

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[info]dirtysidedown 15th-Jun-2010 05:48 pm (UTC)
duh
[info]statictv 15th-Jun-2010 05:48 pm (UTC)
You know, or it could be cheating.


Js.
[info]msbyn 16th-Jun-2010 12:16 am (UTC)
That was my thought.
[info]bombfrostings 15th-Jun-2010 05:49 pm (UTC)
Obviously.
[info]statictv 15th-Jun-2010 05:49 pm (UTC)
PS I hate cheaters. Relevant icon is relavent.
[info]shutterdragon 15th-Jun-2010 05:50 pm (UTC)
no, people being stupid fuels divorce :(

im so sad bbs, my boyfriend broke up with me out of fucking nowhere yesterday, after 11 months D: he said it's because "he's too young (were both 19 and go to the same university) to be in a committed relationship"
FUCK HEARTBREAK DDDD:
[info]angstdog 15th-Jun-2010 05:51 pm (UTC)
sorry bb <3
[info]shutterdragon 15th-Jun-2010 06:07 pm (UTC)
ty<33
[info]disco_balla 15th-Jun-2010 05:52 pm (UTC)
Awww, sorry to hear that but your boyfriend is right. You're 19 - go out and date and met other guys and have fun. You don't have to have sex with them or anything but get to know what you like outside of your relationship.

I truly believe that if it is meant to be you'll find each other again.
[info]missingalphabet 15th-Jun-2010 05:54 pm (UTC)
Lolz, he so has another girlfriend and gave you that stupid shit excuse to avoid admitting. Sorry 'bout that, but find another dude really quick and show him all over your ex's face.
[info]phunkadelik 15th-Jun-2010 05:58 pm (UTC)
D: aw man. he's probably interested or seeing someone else already. not saying it to be a bitch, but just so that you're not too surprised when and if you find out.

on the bright side, at least it happened when you were 19 and actually commitment free. not 23 years old, 4 years in, living together for 3.5 years and a dog later. i got the "im too young, i need experiences" (and by experiences he meant a groupie with grills, tacky airbrushed acrylics and logos tattoed on her lol) by a 25 year old who proposed to me 6 months prior. its not a matter of age, but maturity. love and commitment-phones sucks bb. thats why i moved on and got myself a major upgrade >:)
[info]hellobitchezzz 15th-Jun-2010 05:58 pm (UTC)
boy is gay
[info]just_a_few_more 15th-Jun-2010 05:59 pm (UTC)
aww I'm sorry bb :( but you are soooooooooooo young you'll find someone else! And who knows, maybe you just need some time apart to realize you're meant to be?
[info]sistershotgun 15th-Jun-2010 06:31 pm (UTC)
He's not too young, bb, he's just stupid. *hugs*
[info]razzle_spazzle 15th-Jun-2010 06:35 pm (UTC)
I'm sorry babe :(

my boyfriend of over 2 years broke up with me out of nowhere bc he "couldn't see himself marrying me" and he "just wants to be free this summer". hardest thing I've ever had to go through :/
[info]whosebatman 15th-Jun-2010 06:36 pm (UTC)
I'm sorry bb <333
[info]eeeeep 15th-Jun-2010 07:21 pm (UTC)
I feel like I'm one of the few 19 year old females who would be on his side!
You're young and at COLLEGE. It's the time to be figuring out who you are and what you want to do. I truly believe this is easier without a committed relationship. Once you've found yourself, you'll easily find someone who fits with you.

I know the dumped out of the blue feeling. Cry as much as you want and take the summer to get over it. In the fall, you go back to school with confidence, perhaps a few new cute outfits, and you focus on finding new friends and more-than-friends!

sry, i have strong feelings on this because i fear my bff is going to be in your situation soon and i want her to realize its all okay!
[info]shegotaflavor 15th-Jun-2010 07:35 pm (UTC)
He isn't "right" but this is a good chance for you to explore. When my boyfriend of three years broke up with me when I was 20 I thought my life was over. Then I discovered all of the other people out there and I don't even think about him now, although he wants me back.
[info]freeze_i_say 15th-Jun-2010 08:37 pm (UTC)
He doesn't sound like a guy that deserves you bb ((hug))
[info]topf 15th-Jun-2010 09:12 pm (UTC)
Sorry, bb. Im on the same boat. It hurts. Read "It's called a breakup because it's broken". It's saved my life.
[info]juel1979 15th-Jun-2010 10:45 pm (UTC)
Ugh, I've been there. This too shall pass. Go find some funny movies, a friend, and ice cream. Helped me a ton back when it happened. =)
[info]ladywilde80 15th-Jun-2010 11:38 pm (UTC)
Awww bb, I'm so sorry.
[info]heinawook 16th-Jun-2010 12:06 am (UTC)
fuck boys :( i went through this last summer. want me to kill him?
[info]insert_noun 16th-Jun-2010 12:11 am (UTC)
Aww, I'm so sorry - at least now you can find and be with someone who cares about you, that you really deserve. Good luck getting through this!
[info]higherplace 15th-Jun-2010 05:50 pm (UTC)
I don't think it's Facebook... I think it's the douchebag men and women that have Facebooks.
[info]yackyackyack 16th-Jun-2010 03:06 am (UTC)
IKR? A leopard doesn't change its spots just because it got into social networking.
[info]disco_balla 15th-Jun-2010 05:50 pm (UTC)
OMG my friend just broke up with er boyfriend last week after finding some messages to this girl on facebook.

I tell ya, social networking is going to be the downfall of human relationships.

[info]caliphbubba 15th-Jun-2010 05:53 pm (UTC)
sweet, sweet irony.
[info]courtney_77 15th-Jun-2010 05:58 pm (UTC)
I LIKE YOUR WORDS.

I also completely agree.
[info]suckrforacstic 15th-Jun-2010 06:18 pm (UTC)
haha i found out my ex was cheating on me due to myspace. i believe it.
[info]winniecooper 15th-Jun-2010 06:22 pm (UTC)
lol, DO WE KNOW THE SAME PEOPLE?

probably not, but these stories are a dime a dozen these days. sad :/
[info]mundodeamor 15th-Jun-2010 06:24 pm (UTC)
I agree, and not only romantic relationships, but relationships in general. People prefer to chat online than hang out with friends ...
[info]jxcka 15th-Jun-2010 06:57 pm (UTC)
haha i've heard about similar things. ita it really will be
[info]suckrforacstic 15th-Jun-2010 05:52 pm (UTC)
This does not surprise me.
[info]burntblueseason 15th-Jun-2010 05:52 pm (UTC)
If someone's gonna cheat they're gonna cheat. Doesn't matter if they use facebook, 2nd life, etc. or not.

And Neil Brady is a dick. Damn.
[info]missingalphabet 15th-Jun-2010 05:52 pm (UTC)
You mean, cheating FOS spouses are causing divorces and Facebook is a cheaper tool to finding that douchebag out than an private detective.
[info]sirensong12 15th-Jun-2010 06:20 pm (UTC)
mte
[info]disco_balla 15th-Jun-2010 05:52 pm (UTC)
Amy Taylor 28, split from David Pollard after discovering he was sleeping with an escort in the game Second Life, a virtual world where people reinvent themselves.

SMH
[info]tictaac 15th-Jun-2010 05:53 pm (UTC)
This sounds like something an ONTDer would do.
[info]black_swan87 15th-Jun-2010 07:14 pm (UTC)
i had to read a book for a class where 2 people got married on Second Life even though they never met each other. It was so weird.
[info]yackyackyack 16th-Jun-2010 03:09 am (UTC)
Wait, I don't get it? She broke up with him over his imaginary character sleeping with another imaginary character? That's almost like accusing your husband of murder for playing Grand Theft Auto...am I missing something?
[info]tictaac 15th-Jun-2010 05:52 pm (UTC)
This girl who ruined my life in high school divorced her husband of 3 months over some flirting going on on Facebook. Not only did I see the flirting, but I also saw her bitching at him ON Facebook. Idt I've ever been happier about someone else's misfortune.
[info]dirtysidedown 15th-Jun-2010 05:54 pm (UTC)
LOL
[info]missingalphabet 15th-Jun-2010 05:55 pm (UTC)
I gotta admit, laughing at other people's stalking and relationship drama was a fun part of FB. Not enough to make me go back though.
[info]false_hate 15th-Jun-2010 05:55 pm (UTC)
lol, i'm seeing this more and more. idk why one would publicly complain about another when they have friended that person's mother, boss, mailman, etc.
[info]tiarlynn 15th-Jun-2010 05:58 pm (UTC)
JFC husband of three months? What an utter failure on every level.
[info]nene718 15th-Jun-2010 06:13 pm (UTC)
lol wow
[info]jillirific 15th-Jun-2010 05:54 pm (UTC)
i use facebook and i'm not tempted to cheat.

fuck people will blame anything for their idiot actions. the problem is YOUUU douchebags.
[info]anterrabre 15th-Jun-2010 06:00 pm (UTC)
Pretty much.
[info]juel1979 15th-Jun-2010 10:46 pm (UTC)
Seriously.
[info]elisabet85 15th-Jun-2010 05:54 pm (UTC)
I hate facebook in general.
[info]jearsforqueers 15th-Jun-2010 05:55 pm (UTC)
damn facebook..why u gotta be like that!?
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