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6:27 am - 03/18/2010

Sam Mendes is an idiot, got bored with Kate Winslet

Kate Winslet set to move back to UK after husband Sam Mendes tells her 'one woman is not enough for me'

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Actress Rebecca Hall with Sam Mendes. Winslet is said to have become 'frustrated' by the pair's friendship




Kate Winslet is set to move back to England after the breakdown of her second marriage, she has told close friends.
The Oscar winner, 34, is said to be in ‘turmoil’ about the split with director Sam Mendes and is pondering a move back from New York, where she has lived for nearly seven years, to be close to her friends and family.
A source close to the mother-of-two said: ‘Kate is in meltdown mode and doesn't know quite what to do.

The people she's close to in New York are mums in schools but she thinks that will all change and her real friends – Emma Thompson, her sister Anna and her parents - are all over here.
‘Kate feels she needs a support system, but she is torn because doesn't want to disrupt her kids and is able to be very low key in New York.’
Miss Winslet will shortly return to filming her new HBO miniseries Mildred Pierce in the States.

As the Mail told yesterday, the blonde star had become ‘frustrated’ with Mendes’ close friendship with English actress Rebecca Hall, 27.
Mendes, 44, had spent the past year working with Miss Hall in London and New York on dual theatre productions of The Cherry Orchard and A Winter’s Tale for the Bridge Project.
And Miss Hall has been a ‘shoulder to cry on’ for Mendes as his marriage to Miss Winslet crumbled.

Speaking about Miss Hall's friendship with Mendes, a source close to Miss Winslet said: 'When Kate found out that Sam had grown close to Rebecca she was upset. Rebecca is totally Sam's type - a thespian mix of brains and beauty.'
A source close to Mendes confirmed to the Daily Mail: 'Sam and Rebecca are good friends, of course they are, they have spent the better part of a year working together on the Bridge Project. But to insinuate that there is anything further in the friendship is taking it too far.'

Meanwhile, others have claimed that Miss Winslet split from Mendes, 44, after he told her he could never be with just one woman for the rest of his life.

Miss Winslet was apparently left in tears after the noted theatre and film director told her in a frank conversation that he did not believe in having just one relationship.
A close friend of the actress told the Mail: ‘Sam had been really withdrawn and had shut himself away from her.

‘They then had this big talk and he told her ‘people can’t be inspired by just one relationship. For me, it’s never going to be about one relationship… life is a series of relationships.’

‘Kate told him ‘For me it is, that’s what I want’, but Sam replied ‘Well, that’s not what I want’ and they both knew the marriage could not go on, it was hopeless.
‘Kate did not want to break up, she had been trying her best to keep things together for months, but in the end it was just too much.’

The couple have a son Joe, six, and Kate’s nine-year-old daughter by her first marriage also lives with them in New York.
The children are currently with the star as she holidays with Emma Thompson in Puerto Vallerta in Mexico.


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[info]colossusx Re: 'one woman is not enough for me'18th-Mar-2010 01:34 pm (UTC)
probably both of those things
[info]recognitions Re: 'one woman is not enough for me'18th-Mar-2010 01:52 pm (UTC)
Or, perhaps he could have brought that up before, you know, promising to be with her and only her for the rest of his life.
[info]beaddddddsss Re: 'one woman is not enough for me'18th-Mar-2010 02:03 pm (UTC)
Or, you know, maybe he lied, changed his mind, evaded all possible context related to the truth, thought he could hide it, gradually became listless and chose monogamy as an antagonist, never believed in monogamy in the first place and didn't see it reasonable to tell her, etc, etc. I don't even stan for Kate or love her like most of ONTD dos, but she's not psychic and she's not stupid. Some men can trick you or change, even after years loving them and them loving you. Shit happens. Husband has multiple relationships =/= bitch, you should have known/done something/too bad, you're fault
[info]mossharts Re: 'one woman is not enough for me'18th-Mar-2010 02:13 pm (UTC)
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[info]salacious_pop Re: 'one woman is not enough for me'18th-Mar-2010 04:09 pm (UTC)
"For every beautiful woman on earth, you can also find at least one man who is tired of fucking her".

Tacky but true.
[info]doperperson 18th-Mar-2010 01:31 pm (UTC)
Nooo, I like Rebecca Hall. I don't want her involved in this.
[info]condenast 18th-Mar-2010 01:43 pm (UTC)
This. Universe, don't make me hate her!
[info]browniecakemix 18th-Mar-2010 01:57 pm (UTC)
THIS :(

But tbh I will stan for her even if she is
[info]lfruit 18th-Mar-2010 04:55 pm (UTC)
Mte. She's so cute in Starter for 10
[info]hockeychick57 18th-Mar-2010 05:26 pm (UTC)
mte!
[info]zombieredhead 18th-Mar-2010 01:42 pm (UTC)
You know this person?
[info]rvrthms 18th-Mar-2010 02:36 pm (UTC)
i loved her in "starter for 10" & am looking forward to "einstein & eddington."
[info]xfileschick2004 18th-Mar-2010 01:32 pm (UTC)
:-(
[info]vee_bot 18th-Mar-2010 02:17 pm (UTC)
did your post get deleted already? :( it was so much fun!
[info]rvrthms 18th-Mar-2010 02:33 pm (UTC)
i'm hungover / just woke up- what did i miss?
[info]hollis1975 18th-Mar-2010 01:32 pm (UTC)
between this and sandra i am all sad over hollywood marriages.
[info]xfileschick2004 18th-Mar-2010 01:33 pm (UTC)
mte.
[info]hollis1975 18th-Mar-2010 01:34 pm (UTC)
i need katie holmes to leave tom cruise to restore the balance of the universe
[info]peacewillfollow 18th-Mar-2010 01:41 pm (UTC)
What about Sandra?! I wasn't on ONTD much yesterday.
[info]affliction 18th-Mar-2010 04:38 pm (UTC)
Why Sandra?! She's still married!
[info]rampant_geekery 18th-Mar-2010 01:32 pm (UTC)
Well fuck you sir.
[info]anevadedtruth 18th-Mar-2010 01:33 pm (UTC)
Whatever, fathead.
[info]railway 18th-Mar-2010 01:36 pm (UTC)
I no rite, does he think he's hot shit or something? DUDE YOU LOOK LIKE A BAGEL.
[info]shamrocka01 18th-Mar-2010 01:51 pm (UTC)
HAHA a bagel??? I have never heard that insult before but now I agree, he is definitely bagel-esque
[info]xfileschick2004 18th-Mar-2010 01:55 pm (UTC)
um, no. sometimes bagels actually look good and yummy.

I guess if you mean a bagel that nobody ate, sitting by a trashcan on the side of a trashy bus station. being looked at by the local homeless man. who has a disgusted look on his face. then yes.
[info]unnecessaryhat 18th-Mar-2010 02:21 pm (UTC)
you just ruined bagels for me. THANKS A LOT BB
[info]jxcka 18th-Mar-2010 03:32 pm (UTC)
oh my god your icon + comment are just killing me.
[info]sherbearlove 18th-Mar-2010 07:27 pm (UTC)
LOLOLOL
[info]bookishvirgo 18th-Mar-2010 01:38 pm (UTC)
Best response, ever.
[info]xfileschick2004 18th-Mar-2010 01:34 pm (UTC)
i am having the same thoughts.

but then again, hollywood marriages are like high school romances. you are surprised when one lasts for more than a year. :/
[info]filed_under_d 18th-Mar-2010 03:15 pm (UTC)
i wouldnt. or if you do, plan for at least two.
[info]vonlisbon 18th-Mar-2010 05:24 pm (UTC)
I'm starting to believe I'm the only person left who doesn't go "other people are getting divorced, ergo, my future marriage is bound to fail, I shall never get married." I know so damn many people who have gotten divorced and/or had child custody issues but idg how I could ever transfer that to myself. I am me, I'm not Kate Winslet or Sandra Bullock or whoever. My boyfriend is my boyfriend, he's not Sam Mendes or Tiger Woods or Jesse James or whatever whatever. We're not even our good friends.
I'm not saying that means ~it could never happen to us~ but if it did it would be because of some issue we had, not because divorce is some kind of infectious disease.
[info]vonlisbon 18th-Mar-2010 05:28 pm (UTC)
Though seeing all the child custody related crap that has gone on, I swear if that ever happened with me like THE FIRST thing I would do is get someone totally uninvolved in the situation (like a counselor, not a total stranger) and give them, like, power of attorney over the issue. Almost to the point where I'd want to put that in a pre-nup.
People get sooooooooooo wrapped up in their own little personal issues that I swear 90% of child custody cases have zero to do with the child or any sort of parenting abilities. It's all "you called my new girlfriend a skank so you can't see your child for three months!!!" or "I heard your new wife left him with a babysitter while she went to the grocery store so I'm going to sue the shit out of you and you'll never see him again!!!"
[info]modern_toilet 18th-Mar-2010 01:33 pm (UTC)
my boyfriend is friends with a girl that i totally do not trust.
he passed me his phone once to call someone (while he was driving) and i saw that she calls him EVERY SINGLE DAY.
[info]xfileschick2004 18th-Mar-2010 01:35 pm (UTC)
ugh! i have the same problem.

this bitch INVITED my bf to go out drinking (oh and bring your girlfriend if you want) on OUR ANNIVERSARY.

ho.
[info]xfileschick2004 18th-Mar-2010 01:35 pm (UTC)
we didn't go.

but the fact that he asked if I WANTED TO, just made me want to punch him.
[info]ouija_monkey 18th-Mar-2010 01:49 pm (UTC)
I am polyamorous and I still wouldnt let my man have that close of a relationship with my man.
and because we have that kind of relationship I have had bitches think we are swingers etc.
it doesnt help that he is very pretty.
[info]rare_lj 18th-Mar-2010 03:53 pm (UTC)
lol her choosing your anniversary is just annoying, unless she didn't know... but if she's such good friends with him she should write it down
[info]joelies1619 18th-Mar-2010 04:38 pm (UTC)
curb stomp that bitch!
[info]lorelei_7 18th-Mar-2010 11:43 pm (UTC)
I DESPISE SITUATIONS LIKE THIS! I had a long recurring one in my first relationship. My current bf understands that 1) I do not condone it and 2) if he does hang out with a girl who is a friend, it should be in a group or I should be there. END OF STORY.
[info]lovecallinearth 18th-Mar-2010 01:50 pm (UTC)
Did you ever hear the Chris Rock joke about a woman always knowing at least one woman she would never leave her boyfriend with? You watch it and you're laughing thinking "oh no no..." and then slowly "Oh wait..oh yes...yes I do know one."
[info]insaynejayne 18th-Mar-2010 01:57 pm (UTC)
:(

I'm usually that girl who calls her guyfriends almost every day- regardless if they're in relationships.
[info]mojo_malone 18th-Mar-2010 02:06 pm (UTC)
My best friend is a guy and we call each other pretty much every day. Sometimes it was awkward with his ex-girlfriend, but not with his current one.
[info]opusdeihohoho 18th-Mar-2010 02:08 pm (UTC)
my bff went after two guys (not at the same time) who had girlfriends who were in europe. ... she tried to convince me that their girlfriends were boring and simple minded and that she's the one they should be with .. i was like .. SO WHAT? back the fuck up! both guys even responded and went after her, too. she's such a fuckface sometimes.
[info]frenchverbs 18th-Mar-2010 02:12 pm (UTC)
I had that issue with my bf's ex, and he told her to stop calling. He also changed his number, and cut off all contact (they used to work together, and he would seriously just walk by her and didn't even register her on his radar).

idk, I would be pissed if I discovered some woman calling my bf every day by looking at his phone randomly. I would think that was very weird.
[info]bellarose16 18th-Mar-2010 02:39 pm (UTC)
I know how you feel. My bf and I are both friends with this girl, but lately they (my bf and the girl) have become really close buds. Normally I wouldn't mind because we've both had numerous friends of the opposite sex with no problems in the past, but I don't trust her in the slightest when it comes to NOT sleeping with her guy friends. Seriously, she brags about having slept with almost all of her male friends, even a group of roommates who all had NO IDEA she was having sex with all four of them. So I'm not thrilled that they've been spending so much time together, no matter how much my bf tries to reassure me. :-/

/jealous rant
[info]symphonic_blood 18th-Mar-2010 03:07 pm (UTC)
I know how you feel. My boyfriend texts to his best friend every hour and... he wouldn't text me. ;P
[info]kewljules00799 18th-Mar-2010 03:31 pm (UTC)
see, i have guy friends who i'm that close to...but that being said, i would never invite them out on their anniversary, unless i'd totally forgotten or something. something's fish there.
[info]ldfvirgo75 18th-Mar-2010 04:35 pm (UTC)
WTF! Um, that would just not be okay with me.
[info]impishvixxen 18th-Mar-2010 06:28 pm (UTC)
I have this issue too. This girl is NOT attractive-I'm not worried about them hooking up or anything, it's just like, "STOP TEXTING *MY* BF 50 TIMES A DAY YOU DUMB BITCH!!"
[info]vonlisbon 18th-Mar-2010 06:57 pm (UTC)
Don't let that shit stew, yo.

My boyfriend and I have been going very strong for four years and counting and I swear a lot of it is the fact that we don't play around with crap like that. If he has a female friend I don't like, I'll tell him right off the bat and we're going to settle it right then and there, logically, with as calm of a discussion as we can muster, using solid facts and expressing how we feel. I don't fuck around with passive aggression or whatever. "I don't like Angela calling you every day, what's that about? Well it makes me really uncomfortable. She calls you more often than I do. Does she have some problem you're helping her work through or something?" Then at least he knows it bothers you AND you don't risk exploding in some lunatic moment after all this rage has built up for months. What he chooses to do with it from there is really deciding his own fate.


/unsolicited relationship advice
[info]misaroxxx 18th-Mar-2010 07:13 pm (UTC)
Ugh. I hate that shit. I'm sorry bb. Memories I have similar to this keep me single. :-\
[info]run_atreyu 18th-Mar-2010 09:50 pm (UTC)
This thread is fucking with my head. How so many women blame the other women and not their possibly CHEATING BFs completely bemuses me. And these are probably the exact same women who turn around and claim that there should be a ~sisterhood~ where women stick up for other women. You can't have both.
[info]lauracoy 18th-Mar-2010 01:34 pm (UTC)
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[info]anevadedtruth 18th-Mar-2010 01:37 pm (UTC)
The smile on my face right now is ridiculous.
[info]camila12j 18th-Mar-2010 01:39 pm (UTC)
aww
[info]eyebrow_cancer 18th-Mar-2010 01:45 pm (UTC)
:'DDD

I'm not even a Kate/Leo, but APPROPRIATE GIF IS APPROPRIATE.
[info]imaginaryalice 18th-Mar-2010 01:51 pm (UTC)
IA!
[info]consfan2 18th-Mar-2010 02:03 pm (UTC)
Perfect!
[info]yled 18th-Mar-2010 02:49 pm (UTC)
:D aw, this is cute
[info]violentirony 18th-Mar-2010 02:52 pm (UTC)
[info]starchit 18th-Mar-2010 03:27 pm (UTC)
I chuckled aloud irl
[info]bronxdawn 18th-Mar-2010 04:07 pm (UTC)
In the immortal words of The Fonz,

PERFECTO-MUNDO
[info]ticklemepink127 18th-Mar-2010 04:58 pm (UTC)
LOL THIS. win.
[info]luxis_lil 18th-Mar-2010 06:20 pm (UTC)
&hearts &hearts &hearts
[info]andi88 18th-Mar-2010 06:31 pm (UTC)
Perfect. A+.
[info]bagelofdeath 18th-Mar-2010 01:36 pm (UTC)
I know looks aren't everything, but yikes.
[info]hausofashley 18th-Mar-2010 01:45 pm (UTC)
Yeah, I'd be floored if someone told me that after seven years. Couldn't mention that before? That would've been a dealbreaker.

Sad, nonetheless even if she was told and he STILL married her. Sounds to me like Sam wants his cake and to eat it too.
[info]leitao 18th-Mar-2010 02:06 pm (UTC)
Middle-aged crisis? IDK.
[info]bertiedav 18th-Mar-2010 01:43 pm (UTC)
seriously, that is beyond douchetastic
[info]galaxymilkyway 18th-Mar-2010 01:47 pm (UTC)
doesn't he mean for him life is a series of multiple concurrent sexual relationships?

[info]1001petals 18th-Mar-2010 01:36 pm (UTC)
Mendes sounds like a total douche. Why get married with a philosophy like that?
[info]zombieredhead 18th-Mar-2010 01:43 pm (UTC)
mte
[info]sodahands 18th-Mar-2010 01:37 pm (UTC)
source = Daily Fail therefore this article is invalid and filled with way too much stupid.
[info]sodahands 18th-Mar-2010 01:42 pm (UTC)
I LOVE YOUR USERNAME
[info]i_am_sydbristow 18th-Mar-2010 01:50 pm (UTC)
haha tell that to everyone shaking and crying over this article
[info]mossharts 18th-Mar-2010 02:14 pm (UTC)
god, this
[info]november_7th 18th-Mar-2010 03:15 pm (UTC)
iawtc
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