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5:44 pm - 06/17/2008

Usher thinks lesbians date women because they can't find men [+ full interview]



Usher seems to think he knows the reason why there are so many lesbians running around in the world. He told Vibe magazine:

"Women have started to become lovers of each other as a result of not having enough men."



In the July issue of Vibe, which hits newsstands nationwide next week, Usher expanded on some comments he made during his heated appearance on "TRL" late last month.

Usher's mom and former manager, Jonnetta Patton, figures heavily in the article: The singer addresses the circumstances under which she ceased to be his manager, scoffing at suggestions that he fired the woman he describes as "the total package" and "my everything."

"I love my mother — she's the only one I have," he said, pausing for a moment before continuing. "I decided to not fire, not get rid of, but to give [my mother] the ultimate compliment — to retire her to be a full-time grandmother. My mother and I decided to change her situation, together. There was a conversation. I didn't write her a letter or pink-slip her."

For her part, Patton noted in the article that she's still a very active executive. "I'm managing Natasha, an artist on Jive Records, a guy group called Kwiet Storm, and a solo artist, Dante," she said. "I started my own record label — JPat Records. I also manage [my younger son], producer JLack — he's signed to Usher's production company."

Of course, the public family battles surrounding Usher's marriage to his former stylist Tameka Foster last year — which took many by surprise when he announced his engagement almost offhandedly to MTV News in March, followed by a head-spinning on/off status before finally tying the knot early in August — also came up during the conversation. His mother apparently opposed the marriage.

"I hurt more than anything over these last two years when I felt my mother didn't really embrace my situation," he told Vibe. "That really hurt me."

"My mother is an aggressive person," he said. "She makes hard decisions, and she caused me to make a hard decision as well."

In the months since the wedding was first announced, gossip spiraled that Usher is being overly influenced by Foster. The rumors led him to send an open letter to People in which he said he was "happy, excited, completely clear and independent on [his] direction, feelings, decisions, and ... NOT BEING LED."

Usher said he now feels the letter may not have been the best move. "If for some reason, I [wasn't] dealing with a situation properly, it's not because I'm not applying the knowledge that you assume I have. It's because I'm just learning. The one thing [my mother] taught me to do is keep my mouth shut. I probably should've just never [wrote the open letter]. It was never intended to be retaliatory, I just felt like I needed to say something. If I could go back, [I'd] just weather the storm."

As he did on "TRL," Usher took the opportunity to sound off on skeptics commenting on his marriage.

"Am I so much of a bad guy because I decided to get married? Am I so much of a bad guy [because once I got in the situation], I decided to stand for something, build a foundation, and think about my future?" he asked. "As a man, you would respect me for not turning my back on it. ... It can never be bad to have a foundation as a man — a black man — in a time when women are dying for men. Women have started to become lovers of each other as a result of not having enough men. Are you not studying the stories? Wake up! Black love is a good thing."

He also said he values the realness his wife brings to his life. "[Foster] will tell me. If something doesn't look right or she feels like it could look better, she'll say something.

"The swagger I possess now definitely comes from my wife," he continued. "And my son completes me. He changes my perspective on what life is, and what matters."

Usher also addressed married life in "Best Thing," a song he performed with fellow newlywed Jay-Z on his new LP, Here I Stand, which debuted at #1 on the Billboard albums chart earlier this month.

The Vibe article concludes with Usher addressing the challenge of being both a superstar and a new father. "It's not easy for anyone to create hit after hit," he said. "It gets harder because I don't want to be [in the studio]. I want to be in the house. These are the days of my son's life, these first three years. I want to be there.

"The challenge is having it all."

MTV

Source
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[info]ryanchai 17th-Jun-2008 09:57 pm (UTC)
posted. for the third time.
[info]tube_fiend 17th-Jun-2008 10:04 pm (UTC)
Yep.
[info]ultravlntmoloko 17th-Jun-2008 10:10 pm (UTC)
Speaking of third. 3-3 tonight motherfuckaaaaaaaaa
[info]louboutin_red 17th-Jun-2008 10:11 pm (UTC)
You think they'll win tonight?
LA i mean?
[info]ryanchai 17th-Jun-2008 10:14 pm (UTC)
HELL YES 3-3. LAKERS in 7 tyvm
[info]bb_g 17th-Jun-2008 10:11 pm (UTC)
ikr?..wtf?...it wasn't even that long ago, it was like earlier today. the OP obviously didn't check before posting.
[info]millesimes 17th-Jun-2008 10:15 pm (UTC)
any links to the the first or second posts? i like to read the comments on that in case this one gets deleted.
[info]velena 17th-Jun-2008 11:58 pm (UTC)
I KNOW. Oh my god, I hate when this happens.
[info]ccf_8002 17th-Jun-2008 09:58 pm (UTC)
stfu you fucking turtle.
[info]ccf_8002 17th-Jun-2008 10:26 pm (UTC)
our icons should have seks and make many wildenstein icon bbs.
[info]tankmachine 17th-Jun-2008 09:58 pm (UTC)
lmao wow
[info]fitfortheunfit 17th-Jun-2008 09:58 pm (UTC)
oh yeah, that's it. thanks usher for clearing that up.
[info]up_and_away1252 17th-Jun-2008 10:07 pm (UTC)
lol IAWTC
[info]wut 17th-Jun-2008 09:58 pm (UTC)
lol.

tbqh i'd rather be a lesbian than date his ugly ass.

srsly, he's gone to hell. :(
[info]aswewere 17th-Jun-2008 10:31 pm (UTC)
I was just going to say that. He's way off but if he was my choice, I'd be lesbian all the way.
[info]thunder_rose 18th-Jun-2008 01:13 am (UTC)
gone to hell? to me he's ALWAYS looked like a chipmunk. he seriously needs to get over himself
[info]wut 18th-Jun-2008 01:21 am (UTC)
lol okay that's true.

i just meant like. body-wise. did you see his flab in a post from.. awhile back? it was bad.
[info]numb_crystal 17th-Jun-2008 09:58 pm (UTC)
lol ok

though that can be argued for the highschool/college girls that make out with each other for guy's attention... but they dont say they're lesbians
[info]mon_deluge 17th-Jun-2008 10:16 pm (UTC)
the correct term is "four-year queer"
[info]roxiblu 17th-Jun-2008 09:59 pm (UTC)
He found himself a decent gentlemen
[info]rekichan 17th-Jun-2008 10:00 pm (UTC)
mte.
[info]catalytically 17th-Jun-2008 09:59 pm (UTC)
what
[info]hussel 17th-Jun-2008 10:12 pm (UTC)
are you offended as a lesbian
[info]catalytically 17th-Jun-2008 10:28 pm (UTC)
yeah
[info]comfortable_yet 17th-Jun-2008 10:31 pm (UTC)
omg your icon! ;)
[info]ericasays 17th-Jun-2008 09:59 pm (UTC)
well, he's entitled to his opinion.
[info]amelie_olsen 17th-Jun-2008 10:08 pm (UTC)
Well his opinion has been proved wrong by biology, so no, he's not entitled to be a dumbass.
[info]ericasays 17th-Jun-2008 10:12 pm (UTC)
wah wah
[info]tankmachine 17th-Jun-2008 10:14 pm (UTC)
lmao
[info]passions_voice 17th-Jun-2008 11:10 pm (UTC)
Thank you. :)

People who say shit like that piss me off.
[info]iamcheryltweedy 17th-Jun-2008 10:35 pm (UTC)
Who is saying he's not? We are entitled to think he's a dumbass, though.
[info]sunoftheskye 18th-Jun-2008 03:09 am (UTC)
And I'm entitled to think he's an idiot. So shut the fuck up.
[info]shanny_w 17th-Jun-2008 09:59 pm (UTC)
Because there are a lot of worthless men in this world. *looks at usher*
[info]up_and_away1252 17th-Jun-2008 10:11 pm (UTC)
LOL
[info]hypocrisyetal 17th-Jun-2008 09:59 pm (UTC)
well there sure aren't many hot lesbians.
[info]votero 17th-Jun-2008 10:19 pm (UTC)
lol false
[info]ahkna 17th-Jun-2008 10:20 pm (UTC)
IA.
[info]iamcheryltweedy 17th-Jun-2008 10:40 pm (UTC)
idnawtc
[info]alotta_fachina 18th-Jun-2008 01:24 am (UTC)
idnawtc
[info]sunoftheskye 18th-Jun-2008 03:09 am (UTC)
I'd love to meet you so I can punch you right in the middle of your face.
[info]ultravlntmoloko 17th-Jun-2008 09:59 pm (UTC)
Usher, you are a stupid son a of a bitch.
[info]sliding_scale 17th-Jun-2008 09:59 pm (UTC)
Douchebag.

God, he's such a fucking jagoff.
[info]neccowafers 17th-Jun-2008 09:59 pm (UTC)
I like in posts when there's 3284028340 joker icons in a row.
[info]wut 17th-Jun-2008 10:01 pm (UTC)
same.
:D
[info]c2a 17th-Jun-2008 10:05 pm (UTC)
OMG YOURS WINS!!!!!!
[info]mon_robot 17th-Jun-2008 11:45 pm (UTC)
omg. you win the internet.
[info]sixteenjackies 17th-Jun-2008 11:59 pm (UTC)
i think you have the best one :-[
[info]valentineballad 17th-Jun-2008 10:05 pm (UTC)
me too bb :)
[info]room_eight 17th-Jun-2008 10:08 pm (UTC)
BILL!!!!!!

Neal: "Guess what was on the end of my bed when i woke up?"
Bill: "A Turd?"
Neal: "Yes Bill, a turd."
Bill: "GROOOOOSSSS"

ahahahah F&G FTW
[info]my_fresh_hell 17th-Jun-2008 10:10 pm (UTC)
mte
[info]up_and_away1252 17th-Jun-2008 10:11 pm (UTC)
ia
[info]fez_worshiper 17th-Jun-2008 10:12 pm (UTC)
lol ia
[info]lookatthatsky 17th-Jun-2008 10:13 pm (UTC)
Mhm!
[info]trip_fontainee 17th-Jun-2008 10:18 pm (UTC)
awww joker bill! i've got a mac so idk how to joker-fy nick :(
[info]shehidesitwell 17th-Jun-2008 10:18 pm (UTC)
reason #4535 why I heart ONTD
[info]letsxgetxknown 17th-Jun-2008 10:37 pm (UTC)
Haha, I dig yours!
[info]smalltownitch 17th-Jun-2008 10:43 pm (UTC)
agreed.
[info]caseadilla02 17th-Jun-2008 11:23 pm (UTC)
me tooooooo!
[info]serenity_winner 18th-Jun-2008 12:08 am (UTC)
I can't wait to Jokerify myself.
[info]booksonshelves 17th-Jun-2008 09:59 pm (UTC)
like that stupid guy on tila tequila who was like the third one kicked out
.....what an idiot.
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