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11:29 am - 05/09/2008

Ashton and Demi’s Adoption Plans



Ashton Kutcher recently revealed that he has long been contemplating adoption and that someday he will expand his family.

The 30-year-old is stepfather to Rumer, 19, Scout, 16, and Tallulah, 14 - Demi’s daughters with Bruce Willis - and the actor insists he dreams of “someday” expanding their brood with children of his own. But the Hollywood heartthrob admits he hasn’t ruled out adoption, since he has always been drawn to the idea of taking in an orphaned child.

He says, “I have thought about adopting a kid my whole life. When I was eight I had a friend called Terry and one day he told me he was adopted.

“He said his parents told him there was a more special bond between them because they picked him. I thought that was pretty profound and I would be open to the idea.”

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_xxtom 9th-May-2008 03:31 pm (UTC)
Ashton AND Demi are both douchebags.
babloo328 9th-May-2008 03:31 pm (UTC)
JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL.
calcified 9th-May-2008 03:32 pm (UTC)
take it from my hands
sunoftheskye 9th-May-2008 03:35 pm (UTC)
'Cause I can't do this onnnn my ownnn
calcified 9th-May-2008 03:37 pm (UTC)
goddamn it

brb listening to carrie the rest of the day
melodiee 9th-May-2008 03:32 pm (UTC)
Adopting seems weird when you think of it that way, like picking out the cutest/sweetest puppy in the pet store. Also, why does the child have to be orphaned? Maybe his parents abuse him or something.
bellichka 9th-May-2008 03:38 pm (UTC)
because orphaned children stand less of a chance of having people come out of the woodwork saying "HE'S MY SON! I WANT HIM BACK!" when they found out their neglected kid has been adopted by celebrities.
one_fierce_bish 9th-May-2008 03:41 pm (UTC)
exactly..I think that's why a lot of celebs try and adopt outside of the states too..because greedy neglectful parents will go to the media so fucking quick if they find out what happened to the kid they didn't give to shits about a year ago (tho Madonna is the exception)
bellichka 9th-May-2008 03:44 pm (UTC)
I was actually happy that David's father was like, "he has a better life now." He wasn't trying to whore it out. But yeah, I'd agree that that's why a lot turn to outside adoptions. Not to mention, a third-world orphanage is unimaginable to us, and though kids in the US who are in foster care and whatnot have it a bit rough, I don't think we really have any idea of what the other side is truly like. It's horrible.
latitude11 9th-May-2008 06:19 pm (UTC)
A bit rough is a huge understatement.
bellichka 9th-May-2008 06:26 pm (UTC)
I meant to say "a bit rougher," but yes, I am obviously aware that's a huge understatement.
latitude11 9th-May-2008 06:29 pm (UTC)
ok. :) I'm a huge advocate for domestic adoption.
bellichka 9th-May-2008 06:31 pm (UTC)
and I'm a huge advocate for international adoption, despite being a domestic adoption myself.
latitude11 9th-May-2008 06:32 pm (UTC)
Why International vs. Domestic?
bellichka 9th-May-2008 06:48 pm (UTC)
Because international kids just have it that much worse. If I had not been adopted (which would have never happened because I'm white and was a baby, unfortunate as that is), I still would have had a roof over my head and food in my belly had I been placed in foster care. I would more than likely not had to worry about malaria, SARS, bird flu, or where I was going to get my next dose of medication that would save my life. I wouldn't need to worry about schooling, housing, etc. etc. Obviously every case is not perfect like this, but the number of imperfect cases in the U.S. is the exception, not the norm, as internationally.

Not to mention, we only hear about international adoptions so often because of the celebrities who participate in them. Do you know how hard it is to get a healthy, white baby in the United States? My parents had to wait 10 years, and that was in the 70's-80s. Only about 1 in 7 adoptions within the U.S. are international adoptions. For many of these children, their home countries simply cannot take care of them. I believe that for nations and families who have the resources, it is selfish to limit yourself to domestic adoptions when so many children internationally are suffering and have nobody to help them. However, I do acknowledge that families also need to look to handicapped children, minority children, older children, etc. when it comes to adoption, if they're choosing to look domestically. But many don't, which is why I support international adoption moreso. Better to adopt a starving Vietnamese kid than some white baby who, tbh, is going to get adopted anyways.
latitude11 9th-May-2008 06:53 pm (UTC)
I appreciate you sharing this with me. My husband and I are just finishing up the certification to be licensed foster parents - foster/adopt. I guess I just see that there are so many children here suffering we should take care of the people in our community first. Our hearts are in mentor/foster/adopt tweens and aging out teens.
bellichka 9th-May-2008 06:58 pm (UTC)
Yeah tbh that is what I will probably end up doing as well. I have no patience with small children, and don't see myself settling down with a husband and getting married and all that bullshit. I think there are a lot of older kids who have slipped through the cracks and need somebody to help break the cycle and support them.
esmewilliams 9th-May-2008 08:53 pm (UTC)
so would you take a black one cuz you seem really proud that being white got you adopted faster or quicker or whatev-i'm just saying
bellichka 9th-May-2008 08:56 pm (UTC)
of course I would. and I'm not proud of that, I think it's a sick system and fucked up where kids get adopted faster just because of their race. I was using my own experience as an example of how messed up it is, and if you see that as me being proud about it, you're dumb as hell.
calcified 9th-May-2008 03:32 pm (UTC)
tbh i love them together, idc that it's an unpopular opinion

i think they genuinely like each other a lot, so good for future kids
more neglect for rumer and talluah
violue 9th-May-2008 03:32 pm (UTC)
I think it's kind of nice that they're still together
cleanburritos 9th-May-2008 03:33 pm (UTC)
Good for them, they would make a great family to some lucky kid. And, her bio kids are pretty fug.
sunoftheskye 9th-May-2008 03:35 pm (UTC)
Peeler! <3
one_fierce_bish 9th-May-2008 03:33 pm (UTC)
I'm all for adopting but everything Ashton does he makes it so douchey
_toxicmoxy 9th-May-2008 03:34 pm (UTC)
demi is just too old to be having kids.
suspicious 9th-May-2008 03:35 pm (UTC)
those names.

how drunk would a person have to be to name their child 'scout'? not much, right?
sunoftheskye 9th-May-2008 03:35 pm (UTC)
To Kill A Mockingbird
suspicious 9th-May-2008 03:37 pm (UTC)
so? my sister middle-named my nephew 'steinbeck' and he's a notable author. doesn't mean you have to name your kid after him.
melodiee 9th-May-2008 03:40 pm (UTC)
Atticus > Scout
owl_get_you 9th-May-2008 03:46 pm (UTC)
I named my dog Tallulah, and then was depressed when I realized that Demi and Bruce's kid was named that.

It was also weird on season 3 of Project Runway when they did the dogs and Kate (my name) picked out a dog named Tallulah. My face looked like :O
sunoftheskye 9th-May-2008 03:36 pm (UTC)
Ashton = sexy
sunoftheskye 9th-May-2008 03:36 pm (UTC)
bellichka 9th-May-2008 03:38 pm (UTC)
Sorry, but Ashton is starting to grow on me. Him and Colin Farrell.
luna_incognita 9th-May-2008 03:40 pm (UTC)
He's 30???

Way to be olld to be acting like some amateur professional child on PUNK'D. Doofus.
lizzie127 9th-May-2008 03:46 pm (UTC)
is that show still on? you would think by now celebrities would realize whats happening.
boltonlove 9th-May-2008 04:03 pm (UTC)
I think they did their last season last year, or atleast I hoped they did. They pranks got stupider as the years pasted.
trenthamfamily 9th-May-2008 03:47 pm (UTC)
LOL My first thought was that SHE was going to adopt HIM...
rosanjin 9th-May-2008 03:50 pm (UTC)
I just love how adopted kids make all of us kids born from our parents feel like we weren't wanted.
dontbecoymalfoy 9th-May-2008 05:01 pm (UTC)
I hope you're kidding.
rosanjin 9th-May-2008 05:47 pm (UTC)
Of course I am. I hate that cliche though. I hear about a million times a year. And actually, it isn't the kids that say it - it is their adoptive parents.
bonitaquetal 9th-May-2008 04:01 pm (UTC)
I had a friend called Terry ... they picked him.

He sounds like he's talking about a dog. What a douche.
uhnothanks 9th-May-2008 04:02 pm (UTC)
Oh Terry.
adamsbitch 9th-May-2008 05:01 pm (UTC)
LOVE your icon. seriously i thought boo radley was SO hot in that movie.
rockstarteacher 9th-May-2008 07:11 pm (UTC)
My name isn't Harry or Mary, it's T-aaaaiiiirrrryyy!
marauderthesn 9th-May-2008 04:40 pm (UTC)
“He said his parents told him there was a more special bond between them because they picked him. I thought that was pretty profound and I would be open to the idea.”

The bond between parents and their biological children just can't equal the ~*~*~*~*~SPECIALNESS~*~*~*~*~*
latitude11 9th-May-2008 06:23 pm (UTC)
Please adopt domestically rather then go outside of the US! There are millions of poor, hungry, neglected and abused children right under your nose here - you don't need to go to another country!

Not to mention that many many many times International adoptions end in a disruption and children adopted domestically have the same loss and separation issues. Sometimes even more if they are consciously exposed to their culture and then they loose it.
esmewilliams 9th-May-2008 08:56 pm (UTC)
aw but it's cute to get a little fat chinese baby or a little african baby and tote them around like a freakin accessory and get your pic taken. i mean even if you aren't a celeb you get attention and praise for doing that stuff.

oh well, it's a shitty situation no matter what, you've got white people who either want a lily white "pure" baby only or the ones who want an awesome photo op, then you've got the foster parents totally in it for the government checks and benefits-it's all just damn sad.
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