ONTD

6:06 am - 01/10/2007

Kidd files for divorce from abusive wife.

TRENTON, N.J. -- New Jersey Nets star Jason Kidd filed for divorce from his wife of 10 years Tuesday, accusing her of "extreme cruelty" throughout their marriage.

In the dissolution papers, filed in state Superior Court in Bergen County, Kidd accuses Joumana Kidd of physically and mentally abusing him, threatening to make false domestic violence complaints against him to police and of interfering with his relationship with his children.

"The defendant's extreme and unwarranted jealousy and rage has left the plaintiff concerned about her emotional stability," the papers say.

The divorce filing came less than a day after the 33-year-old NBA player filed a domestic violence complaint seeking a temporary restraining order against his wife.

"Jason Kidd filed for divorce from his wife today on the grounds of extreme cruelty over a long period of time," Kidd's attorney, Madeline Marzano-Lesnevich, said in a statement Tuesday. "As this is an extremely difficult personal matter, I ask that the privacy of the Kidd family be respected."

The complaint, however, attempts to paint a detailed portrait of Joumana Kidd as a vitriolic, jealous and paranoid wife prone to public outbursts and threats, including during a recent Nets game.

According to the complaint, Joumana Kidd used the couple's 8-year-old son on Dec. 27 to sneak into the Nets locker room and rummage through Jason Kidd's locker to find his cell phone. After looking up the names and numbers on it, the complaint said she left her son behind as she went upstairs to take a front row seat, where she shouted insults at Kidd throughout the game.

The papers accuse Joumana Kidd of kicking, hitting, punching and throwing household objects at her husband as she became "increasingly controlling and manipulative" in the last few years of their union.

According to Kidd, his wife had tracking devices installed on his cars and computers and has harassed his trainer, friends and family.

The Kidds were married in 1997 and live in Saddle River. They were involved in a domestic violence matter six years ago when he was playing for the Phoenix Suns.

In that incident, Jason Kidd was arrested in January 2001 after his wife told police he hit her during an argument over their son, Trey Jason (T.J.), who was 2 at the time. Kidd pleaded guilty to spousal abuse, was fined $200 and ordered to take anger management training.

Besides 8-year-old T.J., the Kidds have 4-year-old twin daughters, Miah and Jazelle.

Despite the numerous accusations by Kidd in the complaint, he did not ask for sole custody of the children.

"It is in the best interest that the parties share physical and legal custody of the children," the complaint said.

Kidd will make more than $18 million this season.

The Kidds' home phone number is unlisted. An after-hours message left for Joumana Kidd's lawyer was not immediately returned.

Jason Kidd did not make himself available to the media before the Nets' game against the Toronto Raptors on Tuesday night.

http://sports.espn.go.com/nba/news/story?id=2725524
[info]lovedhurtlost 10th-Jan-2007 04:17 pm (UTC)
Bull fucking shit. I hate him.
[info]beautifiers 10th-Jan-2007 04:18 pm (UTC)
Whaaaaaaaaaat? This came out of nowhere. But jeez, what a bitch.
[info]0405 10th-Jan-2007 04:20 pm (UTC)
No, there was a post from yesterday where he was accusing her of child abuse.
[info]beautifiers 10th-Jan-2007 04:22 pm (UTC)
That's what I'm talking about. The accusation and now the divorce. I DID read the article, y'know.
[info]0405 10th-Jan-2007 04:23 pm (UTC)
LOL chill.
[info]beautifiers 10th-Jan-2007 04:32 pm (UTC)
But I'm not getting angry/defensive. :(
[info]thedivinemissn 10th-Jan-2007 04:23 pm (UTC)
i believe it. she looks like she could fcuk him up.
[info]its_only_timmme 10th-Jan-2007 04:23 pm (UTC)
so your wife is batshit crazy, abusive and possibly negligent, but you still want to share custody? either this is bs or the guy doesn't give a shit about his kids or how they turn out.
[info]lovenoelg 10th-Jan-2007 04:49 pm (UTC)
iawtc
[info]kayleigh013 10th-Jan-2007 05:27 pm (UTC)
Agreed!
If he is that upset, TAKE the kids from her. But, no...that might impeed his upcoming social life. sigh.
[info]ibentmywookiie 10th-Jan-2007 04:26 pm (UTC)
sweet.
ill marry you, jason kidd.
[info]sobespeaks 10th-Jan-2007 04:26 pm (UTC)
I feel sorry for their kids.
[info]eener 10th-Jan-2007 04:26 pm (UTC)
This going to be so dirty. I'm surprised he didn't ask for custody after the allegations he made though? Not that I know a huge deal about either party.
[info]sasssymcgee 10th-Jan-2007 04:28 pm (UTC)
Joumana Kidd = Juwanna Mann?
[info]kranjcar 10th-Jan-2007 04:37 pm (UTC)
hahahah. That's what I thought of when I saw her name.
[info]cacaballbutt 10th-Jan-2007 05:46 pm (UTC)
every time I see her name I think it says ya mama
[info]sinfidel me too!10th-Jan-2007 06:53 pm (UTC)
JOU MAMA!
[info]cynica 10th-Jan-2007 04:31 pm (UTC)
Good for him. Abuse is abuse. Anybody who gives him shit for "not being a man" or for filing charges against her needs to shut. up. More men who are in abusive situations with women as the aggressor need to step forward like Kidd is.
[info]conorchu 10th-Jan-2007 04:33 pm (UTC)
Poor guy, poor kids.
[info]bad_jew 10th-Jan-2007 04:35 pm (UTC)
I'm sure her behavior had nothing to do with excessive cheating and negligence on his behalf.
[info]spin_doctor 10th-Jan-2007 11:55 pm (UTC)
see my comment below
[info]bad_jew 11th-Jan-2007 02:46 am (UTC)
I'm not sure why you wanted me to read that. It wasn't convincing, nor educational. But thanks for wasting my time.
[info]spin_doctor 11th-Jan-2007 06:22 pm (UTC)
i don't really see how any response to this subject can be particularly educational, but i speak the truth.

i've dated a pro athlete and have known at least a handful of other women who have, too.

story's the same, only the names change. that's all i'm saying.
[info]vienna_sausages 10th-Jan-2007 04:39 pm (UTC)
Team Jason- that bitch looks crazay

but i also like the fact that he didnt go for sole custody- i hate when parents think its cool to just drop the other parent out of the kids'lives
[info]ilovemissoni 10th-Jan-2007 04:41 pm (UTC)
My ex was extremely abusive and tried this bullshit as well. during one of my many court appearences to keep the restraining order against him he claimed he was the abused party. It makes it really difficult for the judge in a he said she said situation where there isn't any proof.

luckily I field and kept the restraining order and had some pictures of door frames that he had kicked in.

still, it took 3 years to divorce him and $20,000. Imagine how messy their divorce will be
[info]0405 10th-Jan-2007 04:42 pm (UTC)
I hope there weren't children in your situation.
[info]0405 10th-Jan-2007 04:44 pm (UTC)
Not that just because there weren't, doesn't make it any better! I hope you're okay!
[info]ilovemissoni 10th-Jan-2007 04:52 pm (UTC)
oh thanks! Yep I am great know. I wish I had left him in the very beginning at the first signs (mood swings, lies) rather than waiting until everything escalated. Denial is very powerful.
[info]ilovemissoni 10th-Jan-2007 04:55 pm (UTC)
*filed* and *now* God my spelling is bad!
[info]ninjarina 10th-Jan-2007 06:08 pm (UTC)
There are 2 cases in my office like this right now. One is w/ an abusive wife and the other has a crazy bitch of a wife that's something of a drug addict. Both of them got DV-TROs on their wives and wouldn't allow unsupervised visits. The divorces are gonna be very messy.
[info]intheblue 10th-Jan-2007 04:48 pm (UTC)
That is extremely fucked up... especially the fact that she was using her kid to go snoop on the dad. It makes me sick when parents put their kids in the middle of their problems... that kind of stuff can do a lot of emotional damage.
[info]carolalonde 10th-Jan-2007 05:23 pm (UTC)
Women can be abusive just as much as men can be.
Doesn't make it right either way.

Women should do time in prison for being such psychos sometimes
[info]kayleigh013 10th-Jan-2007 05:29 pm (UTC)
Agreed!
It sucks that the men, usually are the ones arrested, just because some bitch claims she was abused. At least some staes are changing that, and arrest the women now too.
[info]kayleigh013 10th-Jan-2007 05:29 pm (UTC)
**states
[info]0405 10th-Jan-2007 05:31 pm (UTC)
Men get fucked. That's how it is when children are involved, and child support cases. Men are ALWAYS at fault. Makes me mad and I'm a woman. It's bullshit.
[info]ninjarina 10th-Jan-2007 06:12 pm (UTC)
It ruins it for the women that are actually abused b/c many of them get harassed elsewhere and it's not like the law actually protects these women. The cops can't detain them for that long and a restraining order is nothing but a paper tiger. The saddest thing is that after the abuse, a woman (and possibly her children/relatives) are in the most danger right after they leave. The victim is forced to leave her HOME and find other shelter like a runaway convict. Believe me, law enforcement is quite biased when it comes to women and especially women of colour.
[info]shikinluv 10th-Jan-2007 05:29 pm (UTC)
they're both very fucked up people.
[info]cacaballbutt 10th-Jan-2007 05:33 pm (UTC)
I believe it - damn bitch
[info]turnthecrank 10th-Jan-2007 05:44 pm (UTC)
I feel bad for their kids :o(
[info]itsafacade 10th-Jan-2007 05:56 pm (UTC)
didnt read but ooh yay. i think he's so sexy.

he can knock me around a few times ;)
[info]princessbecky13 10th-Jan-2007 05:58 pm (UTC)
The first thing I thought when I heard this on the radio was that someone on ONTD fucking CALLED this shit yesterday when he filed the thing about the kids. Who was it? Raise your hand so we can all applaud you. I'm too lazy to go look.
[info]ninjarina 10th-Jan-2007 06:13 pm (UTC)
Those horrible implants she has gives ME enough of a reason to punch her in the throat.

But seriously kids, stay in school.
[info]ghost_explosion 10th-Jan-2007 06:43 pm (UTC)
can someone please post that picture of them looking like weird wax figurines and/or their heads on someone else's body?
[info]lachica2000 10th-Jan-2007 07:22 pm (UTC)
How do you accuse your spouse of abusing you and your children of abuse bad enough that you have to leave but still contend that it's in the best interest that the children stay with that spouse?
[info]sexy_rebexy 10th-Jan-2007 07:49 pm (UTC)
I think it's funny cause awhile back he hit her or something.
[info]hugmeimdirty 10th-Jan-2007 08:38 pm (UTC)
How fucking sad. Divorce makes me :-(
[info]soft_distortion 10th-Jan-2007 10:39 pm (UTC)
they both sound like idjits tbh
[info]spin_doctor 10th-Jan-2007 11:52 pm (UTC)
What a bitch.

Sure, he's probably cheating on her. But you marry a professional athlete and it comes with the territory. Consider yourself lucky to be with a man in the NBA who's monogomous.

But ugh, I hate bitches like that. You want the millions, the mansion, the cars, the jewelry and clothes, oh, and NOT HAVE TO WORK A DAY IN YOUR LIFE FOR IT, fine. But have reasonable expectations. These men are on the road 30% of the year and have vaginas thrown at them left, right and center.

You've got a contract that entitles you to half of everything he has, again, NOT WORKING A DAY IN YOUR LIFE FOR IT, get a divorce and cut your losses. Don't act a fool and put your children in danger.

She's pretty effin' hot and has a great job as an NBATV correspondent, she'll be fine. But again, I just hate bitches like that.
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